"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Strike early or not to eager?

Romjuan

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Hey fellas..

Got a new situation, been a while since ive posted. Il keep it short. This last thursday i banged a new girl, solid 8.5. Shes works at a restaunt so she works really late amd works a lot. Friday i mentioned we should go for round 2. She replies that she cant Friday but Maybe saturday depending on how tired she is after work (gets off usually around 1am). Saturday at 1 she says shes too tired amd already went home.

My question now, do I wait couple days and then ask her out? OR wait couple weeks and see if she reaches out to me?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yewki

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If you're desperate, try yet again in a few days.

If you're not desperate, go NC indefinitely until she contacts you.

Hopefully you're not desperate.
 

tntnfree

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I wounder if this is kind of selling some sexual services for doing some work.
 

sodbuster

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Meh, try again, I've been too tired to scr@w before.... IF she's too hard to get, THEN let her go. I don't usually date barmaids/waitresses. Their hours are too screwed up for a normal 8-5 guy to fit into HIS schedule
 

VladPatton

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Yewki said:
If you're desperate, try yet again in a few days.

If you're not desperate, go NC indefinitely until she contacts you.

Hopefully you're not desperate.

^^^ This.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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