"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Strike early or not to eager?

Romjuan

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Hey fellas..

Got a new situation, been a while since ive posted. Il keep it short. This last thursday i banged a new girl, solid 8.5. Shes works at a restaunt so she works really late amd works a lot. Friday i mentioned we should go for round 2. She replies that she cant Friday but Maybe saturday depending on how tired she is after work (gets off usually around 1am). Saturday at 1 she says shes too tired amd already went home.

My question now, do I wait couple days and then ask her out? OR wait couple weeks and see if she reaches out to me?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yewki

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If you're desperate, try yet again in a few days.

If you're not desperate, go NC indefinitely until she contacts you.

Hopefully you're not desperate.
 

tntnfree

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I wounder if this is kind of selling some sexual services for doing some work.
 

sodbuster

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Meh, try again, I've been too tired to scr@w before.... IF she's too hard to get, THEN let her go. I don't usually date barmaids/waitresses. Their hours are too screwed up for a normal 8-5 guy to fit into HIS schedule
 

VladPatton

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Yewki said:
If you're desperate, try yet again in a few days.

If you're not desperate, go NC indefinitely until she contacts you.

Hopefully you're not desperate.

^^^ This.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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