Going out with friends and to party's is an important part of your social life, its fun, makes you seem more exciting and gives you new and interesting topics of conversation!
Sure going out isn't essential but you would have alot wider social circles... I mean DJing at school is all good but it's much easier at a party, and approaching girls at partys can be the missing link between Not approaching and Cold approaches. The sad part is though, by the time someone is ready to go to a party they all ready should have done some cold approaches, so the missing link is gone!
So now you know going out CAN be an important part of your evolution to a DJ, but for alot of you, this can be difficult because your parents think you are too young to go out. So this post will be about making those parents less strict.
Before i get started, you have to understand that all parents and families are different i advise that you analyse your family and try and find your own ways of "DE-stricting" your parents, but here are some ways that i think are pretty universal.
Be nice!
Your parents love you, you should be glad that they have brought you into this world, dont forget to be nice! Do favours and jobs for your parents and they might reward you by going out. Under no circumstance should you get discouraged and become rude, that is just going to make you seem imature and just make your parents further believe the fact that your too young to go out. Have nice conversation, remember if you want something from your parents dont just flat out ask for it, be nice inquire how they are and how there day has been and have a nice conversation before asking for something. Not only will this make your parents less strict but will also bring you and your family closer together.
Intelectual conversations
Make sure you have interesting conversations with your parents, they have been around alot longer then you and there are many things you can learn from them. When you have interesting, complicated conversations with your family you appear to be growing up and becoming more mature. This too will bring you closer to your family.
Siblings
I have 2 older brothers, and believe me i understand how easy it is to get annoyed by them, you have to learn to co-operate with them and be nice. If they want something you are using, tell them they can have it soon, and if you dont need it and you are just using it so they cant - then for god sakes, stop it! That just makes you seem more immature to your parents. Once you start cooperating with your siblings you will seem more mature, and will bring you closer together which means they may by you alcohol if they are 18, or lend you money, or buy you nice birthday gifts.
School grades
This is important, if your parents notice you are getting good grades then they will think your trying your best to join a good line of work. When you do homework make sure they know your doing it and that they are in the house. Let them see your finished homework and ask them to tell you what they think of it.
Aknowledgment
Make sure your parents know your becoming this young man, let them know by telling them about your good grades, and things like that. Dont say it in a whining little kids voice like "But mum, i got an A at school let me go out" say it as if you were mature.
Independance
You have to let your parenst know that you are starting to mature and become indepent, a few ways of doing this are by asking them questions like "I'm responsible enough to go to partys now arent i?". Let her know you are becoming independant and that you are growing up.
Well this stuff will take a while for your parents to notice it, but they are good personallity traits to aquire anyway. It may take a long time for them to get that image of you as a baby into a mature young man into their head so until they do here is what you can start doing immidiately:
Lie
Some of you might not like this idea, but it's what i decided to do. Try and find a friends house to spend a friday night, go to their house first, go out to a party, whatever, then go back to their house and act as if you were there the whole night. If you cant find someone's house to sleep over at, then just say your sleeping over at someone's house, go there, then go to the party. When the party ends and everyone go's home then go back home and say you got dropped back home becaue you were feeling sick, this may not work for alot of parents.
Dont get caught
Don't get caught doing something bad, it will take a long time to shake it off. Dont come home drunk, dont get caught smoking, if you decide to lie to your parents then make sure these 3 things are in check: A place to crash, Booz, Girls. Alcohol may not be necessary if your not into that. The point is that there is no point in getting caught if you are not doing anything exciting.
In short, do everything you can to let your parents know that your mature and responsible, and until they know that, find ways of getting around the parent barrier.
Hope that helped..
Sure going out isn't essential but you would have alot wider social circles... I mean DJing at school is all good but it's much easier at a party, and approaching girls at partys can be the missing link between Not approaching and Cold approaches. The sad part is though, by the time someone is ready to go to a party they all ready should have done some cold approaches, so the missing link is gone!
So now you know going out CAN be an important part of your evolution to a DJ, but for alot of you, this can be difficult because your parents think you are too young to go out. So this post will be about making those parents less strict.
Before i get started, you have to understand that all parents and families are different i advise that you analyse your family and try and find your own ways of "DE-stricting" your parents, but here are some ways that i think are pretty universal.
Be nice!
Your parents love you, you should be glad that they have brought you into this world, dont forget to be nice! Do favours and jobs for your parents and they might reward you by going out. Under no circumstance should you get discouraged and become rude, that is just going to make you seem imature and just make your parents further believe the fact that your too young to go out. Have nice conversation, remember if you want something from your parents dont just flat out ask for it, be nice inquire how they are and how there day has been and have a nice conversation before asking for something. Not only will this make your parents less strict but will also bring you and your family closer together.
Intelectual conversations
Make sure you have interesting conversations with your parents, they have been around alot longer then you and there are many things you can learn from them. When you have interesting, complicated conversations with your family you appear to be growing up and becoming more mature. This too will bring you closer to your family.
Siblings
I have 2 older brothers, and believe me i understand how easy it is to get annoyed by them, you have to learn to co-operate with them and be nice. If they want something you are using, tell them they can have it soon, and if you dont need it and you are just using it so they cant - then for god sakes, stop it! That just makes you seem more immature to your parents. Once you start cooperating with your siblings you will seem more mature, and will bring you closer together which means they may by you alcohol if they are 18, or lend you money, or buy you nice birthday gifts.
School grades
This is important, if your parents notice you are getting good grades then they will think your trying your best to join a good line of work. When you do homework make sure they know your doing it and that they are in the house. Let them see your finished homework and ask them to tell you what they think of it.
Aknowledgment
Make sure your parents know your becoming this young man, let them know by telling them about your good grades, and things like that. Dont say it in a whining little kids voice like "But mum, i got an A at school let me go out" say it as if you were mature.
Independance
You have to let your parenst know that you are starting to mature and become indepent, a few ways of doing this are by asking them questions like "I'm responsible enough to go to partys now arent i?". Let her know you are becoming independant and that you are growing up.
Well this stuff will take a while for your parents to notice it, but they are good personallity traits to aquire anyway. It may take a long time for them to get that image of you as a baby into a mature young man into their head so until they do here is what you can start doing immidiately:
Lie
Some of you might not like this idea, but it's what i decided to do. Try and find a friends house to spend a friday night, go to their house first, go out to a party, whatever, then go back to their house and act as if you were there the whole night. If you cant find someone's house to sleep over at, then just say your sleeping over at someone's house, go there, then go to the party. When the party ends and everyone go's home then go back home and say you got dropped back home becaue you were feeling sick, this may not work for alot of parents.
Dont get caught
Don't get caught doing something bad, it will take a long time to shake it off. Dont come home drunk, dont get caught smoking, if you decide to lie to your parents then make sure these 3 things are in check: A place to crash, Booz, Girls. Alcohol may not be necessary if your not into that. The point is that there is no point in getting caught if you are not doing anything exciting.
In short, do everything you can to let your parents know that your mature and responsible, and until they know that, find ways of getting around the parent barrier.
Hope that helped..