"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Stretch Marks

Nobeard

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Do any of you guys out there have stretch marks? I have them on my side and they are about 2 inches long and noticable. They are starting to fade, but im wondering if girls will really care as they look like scars on my body. It would be a turnoff if a girl had them to me...

I read though that lots of males develop them in puberty or when weight lifting. Does anybody have any experience with them or removing them without surgery?

I am also not that fat and 19 years old...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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search1ng

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i hear emu oil or something really helps with the stretch marks. I've got a few near my ass/hip area. Probably from when i was a bit of a chubby teenagers. Got a few on my arms from the gym. Haven't tried it yet but all my gym buddies tell me it's good stuff.
 

CaptainJ

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After doing Stronglifts 5x5 for a few months, I've got them on my ass and legs from huge muscle growth. I see them as hard earned battle cars :D

Don't worry though, they fade. Also, lose weight, no one likes a fat fvcker :p

(No one likes a skinny fvcker either)
 

Nobeard

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Any girls ever tell you they dislike them, or worse think they are something else like a std or something. This is an eyeopener for me because i didnt know anything about them before this and i might have made that assumption that she had an std. I need to read up on what stds look like lol
 

Cinamon

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I got stretch marks on my breast when i hit puberty. The damn things grew faster than my skin could grow. cocoa Butter moisturiser got rid of mines, i think the brand i used was palmers. Its fantastic stuff, alternatively you could try some of the stuff they have for pregnant women ;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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