"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Stretch Marks

Nobeard

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Do any of you guys out there have stretch marks? I have them on my side and they are about 2 inches long and noticable. They are starting to fade, but im wondering if girls will really care as they look like scars on my body. It would be a turnoff if a girl had them to me...

I read though that lots of males develop them in puberty or when weight lifting. Does anybody have any experience with them or removing them without surgery?

I am also not that fat and 19 years old...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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search1ng

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i hear emu oil or something really helps with the stretch marks. I've got a few near my ass/hip area. Probably from when i was a bit of a chubby teenagers. Got a few on my arms from the gym. Haven't tried it yet but all my gym buddies tell me it's good stuff.
 

CaptainJ

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After doing Stronglifts 5x5 for a few months, I've got them on my ass and legs from huge muscle growth. I see them as hard earned battle cars :D

Don't worry though, they fade. Also, lose weight, no one likes a fat fvcker :p

(No one likes a skinny fvcker either)
 

Nobeard

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Any girls ever tell you they dislike them, or worse think they are something else like a std or something. This is an eyeopener for me because i didnt know anything about them before this and i might have made that assumption that she had an std. I need to read up on what stds look like lol
 

Cinamon

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I got stretch marks on my breast when i hit puberty. The damn things grew faster than my skin could grow. cocoa Butter moisturiser got rid of mines, i think the brand i used was palmers. Its fantastic stuff, alternatively you could try some of the stuff they have for pregnant women ;)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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