"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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stretch marks from working out

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hey well i've been working out ever since i was 13, and i was pretty well built, when i was 15 i started to work out more viciously with heavier weights, 30 poundz for each bicep, well after aobut 2 weekz of working out with heavy weights i started to get stretch marks on both of my biceps because they wasn't enough skin and it was getting torn from the muscles gettin to big too fast. What do you guyz reccomend for the the stretchmarks?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yagrash

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Keep your body the same size or quit *****ing about stretch marks.

Oh, or about 5 years of time.
 

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i don't know about you but i'm trying to look good for women, so quit being a *****, you probably don't know any thing about lookin good
 

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I have a girlfriend. I get laid pretty much whenever I call her. I really only have to look good for her, and apparently, she thinks I look fine.

Now listen.

Stretch marks (I get them, too... inner arms and thighs) occur whenever a body part expands rapidly. For example, your certainly massive biceps.

There are lots of products around that claim to reduce stretch marks, but none of them stand out as being effective. So what you're left with to get rid of stretch marks are straight time, a dermotologist, or a plastic surgeon. The latter two charge more than I do.

If you don't want more stretch marks, stop stretching your skin out. Maybe you could spend the extra time and learn how to spell.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mederma. It is an over-the-counter topical scar medicine that works wonders. It probably won't eliminate the stretch marks, but it will definitely make it less noticeable. It's a little pricey though ($20 for a tube), and you can get it at any drug store (CVS, Walgreens, maybe even some grocery stores).

Good luck.
 

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Stretch marks? Its your body's way of letting you know you're doing good.
 

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Stretch marks don't go away once you got them. There are two ways to help prevent them, one way works better than the other, you figure out which.

1. Don't workout to become huge, instead go for definition and lose fat.

2. Rub cocoa butter on your skin every day. Note, this will do nothing if you already got stretch marks of course. And even still its effect is minimal at best.

Stretch marks are little tears in the skin that get healed...Like muscle repariing itself after a workout or a broken bone being more robust after breaking. You got them for life amigo.
 
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