"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Street/Mall Approach Openers

YoungSir4sho

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I talked to 15girls today at da mall within 4hours i kno dats sad shouldve been more. Newayz i used Let me ask u a ?. They look den i ask r u single while smiling of course. All of them said said no. 5 othas I opened wit how u doin. Few said hi or fine. Den i ask their name den if they single. They say no den i say u lyin n they laugh n say no im tellin da truth n say 3years or wateva bs lol.

So wat good direct openers fo mall/street gm. Cuz in june im goin fo talkin to at least 10approaches a day
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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muzicfreak2k3

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If i was a girl i would lie to you and say i have a boyfriend too... geeeez think mannn
You're like my one friend... come off as wayy tooo creepy
Try opinion openers (with questions other than asking if they are single)

My biggest tip to you... don't let them know you're hitting on them.
 

YoungSir4sho

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U prolly is right about the single part bein creepy. But i consider myself a confident person so if u have that swag n attiude u can say anythin n it will work. So wat u mean by dont let her kno u r hittin on her? man dats weak lol, u have to b direct cuz once u start talkin to her she's gonna kno u want her feel me. forget that timid bs by tryin t act like her friend.

Im gonna stick wit how u doin opener, or let me ask u a ? den say who lies more women or men? If any1 else have any good openers that work den let me kno
 

Microphone Fiend

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YoungSir4sho said:
I talked to 15girls today at da mall within 4hours i kno dats sad shouldve been more. Newayz i used Let me ask u a ?. They look den i ask r u single while smiling of course. All of them said said no. 5 othas I opened wit how u doin. Few said hi or fine. Den i ask their name den if they single. They say no den i say u lyin n they laugh n say no im tellin da truth n say 3years or wateva bs lol.

So wat good direct openers fo mall/street gm. Cuz in june im goin fo talkin to at least 10approaches a day
So 15 approaches in four hours is bad but you are gonna do 10 a day in June?

:confused:
 

Snow Plowman

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Wow...if your going to go direct then do it...and stop asking if she's single and stop trying to say she's lying...its reactive on all levels...

You want an opener
"Hey your cute, my name is xxx"
"Hi, I'm xxx"

Openers mean NOTHING just keep in mind to dictate the social energy and overall interaction. You act through yur own intentions and the woman reacts.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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YoungSir4sho

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Yea 10 a day fo at least 5days a week. I would like to talk to 25 a day but sometimes dat takes time. Im busy durin da week so i might not have time fo 25 a day.

N yea snow im gonna try dat
 

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god damn dude, I just went back to your previous threads (previous means the threads before this one, judging by the way you type, it doesnt sound like you know any proper English.) and you just get into random relationships? You found a girl online, WITH 5 KIDS, you ASKED her to be your girl 3 SEPARATE TIMES within 5 minutes, and then the next day you cut the relationship off over a text message? Then in your next topic, you got into another relationship!? Dude what the hell is up with you?
 

YoungSir4sho

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Lol, 1st. I type quick n always type in slang always been like dat. I kno how to type seriously when needed.

Bout those relationships yea Ive always been one to get into them quickly. Like no lie when i get a girl from outside or online. Da same night or next few days if i like them i get into a relationship quick. I found it to work cuz 90% of da time when i see them i hit aka have sex.

I kno have to calm down tho. Im single again now n goin to holla @ mad girls outside now n find quality girls
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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