"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Street/Mall Approach Openers

YoungSir4sho

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I talked to 15girls today at da mall within 4hours i kno dats sad shouldve been more. Newayz i used Let me ask u a ?. They look den i ask r u single while smiling of course. All of them said said no. 5 othas I opened wit how u doin. Few said hi or fine. Den i ask their name den if they single. They say no den i say u lyin n they laugh n say no im tellin da truth n say 3years or wateva bs lol.

So wat good direct openers fo mall/street gm. Cuz in june im goin fo talkin to at least 10approaches a day
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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muzicfreak2k3

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If i was a girl i would lie to you and say i have a boyfriend too... geeeez think mannn
You're like my one friend... come off as wayy tooo creepy
Try opinion openers (with questions other than asking if they are single)

My biggest tip to you... don't let them know you're hitting on them.
 

YoungSir4sho

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U prolly is right about the single part bein creepy. But i consider myself a confident person so if u have that swag n attiude u can say anythin n it will work. So wat u mean by dont let her kno u r hittin on her? man dats weak lol, u have to b direct cuz once u start talkin to her she's gonna kno u want her feel me. forget that timid bs by tryin t act like her friend.

Im gonna stick wit how u doin opener, or let me ask u a ? den say who lies more women or men? If any1 else have any good openers that work den let me kno
 

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YoungSir4sho said:
I talked to 15girls today at da mall within 4hours i kno dats sad shouldve been more. Newayz i used Let me ask u a ?. They look den i ask r u single while smiling of course. All of them said said no. 5 othas I opened wit how u doin. Few said hi or fine. Den i ask their name den if they single. They say no den i say u lyin n they laugh n say no im tellin da truth n say 3years or wateva bs lol.

So wat good direct openers fo mall/street gm. Cuz in june im goin fo talkin to at least 10approaches a day
So 15 approaches in four hours is bad but you are gonna do 10 a day in June?

:confused:
 

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Wow...if your going to go direct then do it...and stop asking if she's single and stop trying to say she's lying...its reactive on all levels...

You want an opener
"Hey your cute, my name is xxx"
"Hi, I'm xxx"

Openers mean NOTHING just keep in mind to dictate the social energy and overall interaction. You act through yur own intentions and the woman reacts.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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YoungSir4sho

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Yea 10 a day fo at least 5days a week. I would like to talk to 25 a day but sometimes dat takes time. Im busy durin da week so i might not have time fo 25 a day.

N yea snow im gonna try dat
 

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god damn dude, I just went back to your previous threads (previous means the threads before this one, judging by the way you type, it doesnt sound like you know any proper English.) and you just get into random relationships? You found a girl online, WITH 5 KIDS, you ASKED her to be your girl 3 SEPARATE TIMES within 5 minutes, and then the next day you cut the relationship off over a text message? Then in your next topic, you got into another relationship!? Dude what the hell is up with you?
 

YoungSir4sho

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Lol, 1st. I type quick n always type in slang always been like dat. I kno how to type seriously when needed.

Bout those relationships yea Ive always been one to get into them quickly. Like no lie when i get a girl from outside or online. Da same night or next few days if i like them i get into a relationship quick. I found it to work cuz 90% of da time when i see them i hit aka have sex.

I kno have to calm down tho. Im single again now n goin to holla @ mad girls outside now n find quality girls
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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