I really don't get why ppl (usually teenagers or college kids) like to pick fights with strangers. Last saturday I was walkin with my friend to Subway (bad hood/ town) when these kids from another school started to talk sh*t about my school cuz I was wearning my team hat, we both ignored them and kept on walking. We got our stuff at Subway and came back out and these kids were waiting for us. They started to talk mad sh*t again and actually got in my face this time and pushed me... I usually don't get mad and I never provoke fights but these guys were annoying, so I had my friend hold my sandwitch and I got into a fight with all of them. What surprised me was that every single one of them didn't know how to fight and they threw sissy punches, I got hit few times but it didn't hurt at all. Anyways by the end of the "fight" all of them were on the ground either crying or passed out (one hit to the jaw) so ya I kinda feel bad that I kicked their ass... but my quetion is was this fight "justified"? well it was a 5 on 1 cuz I didn't want my wussy friend to ge hurt. So I was wonderin what you guys feel about street fights?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Street Fighting / I got jumped by 5 kids...
- Thread starter CCKazi007
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Plain & Simple
Senior Don Juan
You did the exact right thing to do, in both cases, the first one when u ignored them and the second one when u knocked all of them out.
If the yactually pushed u as u said u did u have all the right to laid them flat.
but dang 5 people how did u manage to knock out 5 people at the same time?
If the yactually pushed u as u said u did u have all the right to laid them flat.
but dang 5 people how did u manage to knock out 5 people at the same time?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
musclyjerk
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Egh.. take your fantasies elsewhere. If it becomes pathological seek professional help!
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howardalex
Banned
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bumpa lumpa dumpadee doo, I have another question for you, why do you think that you need to tell lies? this is the internet but it still offends my eyes...
yeah sorry 'bout that, that just fvcking rolled off my tongue, I'm impressed with myself now! :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:
bumpmusclyjerk said:
bumpa lumpa dumpadee doo, I have another question for you, why do you think that you need to tell lies? this is the internet but it still offends my eyes...
yeah sorry 'bout that, that just fvcking rolled off my tongue, I'm impressed with myself now! :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:
howardalex
Banned
the other night I went to a club and bedded 400 women, one after another...
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Well I know Judo, Aikido (like Ju-Jistu), little bit of boxing, muai tai and wrestling. I think lifting also helped cuz I really didn't feel any of their kicks, elbows or punches. I really don't care if you believe the story or not... think what you want. I was just asking what people thought about street fighting and if I did the right thing or not. I guess they were juniors or seniors from another highschool, which is prob why they started a fight with me. Don't matter though they were crying after one punch to the face or stomach. Nothing beats food after a fight!
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
This reminds me of one of those kung fu jackie chan type movies. I thought only Chuck Norris could take out 5 people...hm.
Docs
Banned
"Everybody likes.. Kung FU FIGHTING, HUH!!!" (la deladuh, la de duh, dudummdum)
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I can't get why you guys think it's impossibile to win when you are 1 vs. 5. He said he knows several martial arts, while they probably were losers eager to feel strong, because in their high school everyone makes fun of them. There's no doubt that a 180 lbs guy who has even a little knowledge of fighting can win against 5 140 lbs guys that don't even know how to throw a punch.
Some months ago, my brother (who had never gotten into a fight in his whole life, doesn't know any martial art and at 6'0 only weighs 160 lbs) was at a club and all of a sudden a thug punched him in the eye... My brother managed to beat his and his 2 friends' asses in 10 seconds.
Some months ago, my brother (who had never gotten into a fight in his whole life, doesn't know any martial art and at 6'0 only weighs 160 lbs) was at a club and all of a sudden a thug punched him in the eye... My brother managed to beat his and his 2 friends' asses in 10 seconds.
howardalex
Banned
we're not saying it's impossible, we're just saying the chances are this guy's full of sh1t - for example, it's possible to have 19" arms, but if someone just comes on the internet and claims it, chances are he's still full of sh1t...Adone said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Ho hum.
So did you just go for the jaws the entire time? Did they try tackling you down or did they just come 1vs1?
Describe the fight, better yet draw it up.
And by the way, from EVERY SINGLE martial arts book:
"if you are outnumbered, get close to the wall, pick the biggest/closest guy, knock him in the face and RUN"
So did you just go for the jaws the entire time? Did they try tackling you down or did they just come 1vs1?
Describe the fight, better yet draw it up.
And by the way, from EVERY SINGLE martial arts book:
"if you are outnumbered, get close to the wall, pick the biggest/closest guy, knock him in the face and RUN"
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Seriously. If I'm number 3 in a group of 5 and two of us have been knocked out, or I was number 1 or 2, I'm probobly going to look for the nearest weapon, a stick, metal pipe or a rock and I'm going to hit you with that somewhere.
Whatever though, you did or you didn't, it's the internet and it makes little difference.
My two cents on the heart of the matter: MOST people in large groups you should not fight, no matter how good of a fighter you are. Use your adrenaline and run. Fighting is a HUGE gamble and if someone gets a hold of a weapon of some kind like I described or pushes you in front of a car or something, you're going to end up in the hospital, end of story. Your life is not a movie and this is not a game you want to play. If you think you're tough and need to prove something to someone, then join the military and get paid to fight people.
Whatever though, you did or you didn't, it's the internet and it makes little difference.
My two cents on the heart of the matter: MOST people in large groups you should not fight, no matter how good of a fighter you are. Use your adrenaline and run. Fighting is a HUGE gamble and if someone gets a hold of a weapon of some kind like I described or pushes you in front of a car or something, you're going to end up in the hospital, end of story. Your life is not a movie and this is not a game you want to play. If you think you're tough and need to prove something to someone, then join the military and get paid to fight people.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Exactly. If 5 of my friends jumped some kid, and he knocked out 2 of them with one shot. I'm either getting out of there...or beatin the f*ck out of him with something solid.
Without visual proof..this story is just that...a story. It's extremely unlikely that you took on 5 guys. If you did, you wouldn't feel bad either. You'd be pissed. You'd be angry. You'd want to f*ck their girlfriends.
"I got hit a few times but it didnt hurt at all"...Yeah okay.
And I'm sure a bunch of guys were laying on the ground crying...
Usually when you get your ass beat, you don't cry...
Without visual proof..this story is just that...a story. It's extremely unlikely that you took on 5 guys. If you did, you wouldn't feel bad either. You'd be pissed. You'd be angry. You'd want to f*ck their girlfriends.
"I got hit a few times but it didnt hurt at all"...Yeah okay.
And I'm sure a bunch of guys were laying on the ground crying...
Usually when you get your ass beat, you don't cry...
Well I posted this to ask what you guys thought about streetfighting and what would YOU guys have done in the situation... I wasn't asking if you believe it or not... obviously if you don't just leave cuz your opinion doesn't matter here. Anyways I'm pretty sure you would cry voluntary or involuntary if you had a broken nose or rib either from a direct knee, elbow or punch. The fight was kinda 1 on 1 cuz obviously the guys didn't THINK i would beat the first 2 chumps. It was also outside on the street so I'm pretty sure it's hard to find a weapon to use. I did get punched, pushed or kicked a few times... what's unbelievable about that? I took a 85 MPH baseball to the face it's not like you get knocked out after one p*ssy punch. Yes I was pissed that's why I made sure all of them stayed on the ground when I left the scene.
P.S.
Believe what you want, I just wanted other people's opinion on the situation. Whoever said in "In every martial art book it said to punch the biggest guy out and run" is a fruitcake liar that's from a SELF-DEFENSE CLASS MANUAL like the ones CHICKS go to... what actually is in every MARTIAL ART MANUAL is make sure you end the fight quickly and try not to severly injure the opponent.
P.S.
Believe what you want, I just wanted other people's opinion on the situation. Whoever said in "In every martial art book it said to punch the biggest guy out and run" is a fruitcake liar that's from a SELF-DEFENSE CLASS MANUAL like the ones CHICKS go to... what actually is in every MARTIAL ART MANUAL is make sure you end the fight quickly and try not to severly injure the opponent.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.