"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Capitol39

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Let's get some streaming video on this, or some other, site. We could get some veteran DJs to go out and get some of their techniques on camera, then upload it on this site.

Reading is good, but actually seeing how it is done would help immeasurably.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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That is a really good idea and I second that notion. However, is someone willing to take the time and energy to do this? Also, what is it gonna look like if youre taping a chick you just met with a camcorder during your pickups? Good idea but alot of problems.
 

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Im pretty sure that would take A LOT of disk space. And if we cant have the forum jump enabled kuz it takes too much space, what are the chances of this?
 

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how do they videotape the "blind date" show?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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They follow the people with cameras. Then they edit the tape, and add personal touches to it...
 

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yeah...its sorta weird. its hard to imagine being natural when u kno ur being videotaped...dont u think? =\
 

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Hmmm. Hidden cameras would work, but it might be problematic to implement. There must be a way...
 

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Go to one of those spy catalogs. I haven't looked for one online but remember seeing one years ago. They have alot of them in New York supposedly.

I'm sure they have all types of cool video devices there.
 

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I know video-taping the pick-ups would be beneficial to a lot of us, but isn't it illegal to get someone on camera, and publish it on the internet without their consent?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Of course it is, but what can you do?
 

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Guys, are you nuts or something? Its not realistic - to videotape a pickup???

You need a super small camera, or the targer must be in your environment, like with big camera installed behind a mirror.

The only thing that is possible is to record only audio and that's it. And we'll have to share it not through this site, but some other way.
 

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I have 100mb of free space on sucs.org
 

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How about showing (streaming) important exerpts from movies and then commenting on it? These often have good info on how to pick up too... obviously this is less uncomfortable for both the DJ and the chick.

Just a suggestion :D

Greetz,

Bumble-B
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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