"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Streaks versus consistency

drexler

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Hello everyone:

This is my first post on the dj forum.

I was wondering if you guys go on streaks the way I do? I mean, one month I'll feel unstoppable and lay many hb's and then subsequently find myself completely off my game the next month. Is it normal to have hot and cold streaks the way I do? Any tips on improving my consistency and not allowing myself to go "cold."

Drexler
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WC2

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Life is full of streaks and slumps. Nothing is ever consistent. Take the slumps in stride, let it roll of your shoulders. When you're on, live it up to your fullest :)
 

GatorBait

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Welcome to the forums, I'm new myself.

I've also found that sometimes on streaks. I think it is the fact that your confidence snowballs bigger and biggers the longer your streak goes on. You're able to approach women more easily and in a more carefree manner because you can say to yourself "I've already hooked up with all these other girls this month, who cares if I get shot-down all night tonight". Women can no longer sense any desperation from you.
 

Fash

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Man... everyone goes through streaks! and they dont have to be as much as a month apart! You can have a smoking night one night and a totally lame one the next.

As you can see in my last FR (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=104592) I was on fire on Friday but totally flopped on Saturday. But thats just life.

My personal problem is that I just cant help feeling deflated when my sarging is not successful.
 

Tomatoes

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You put to much pressure on yourself Fash. I went out the other night not wanting to pull....Just wanted to go dance with some girls and have some fun. Got 2 number closes and one kiss close.....Just the way it goes.


Everyone def goes there streaks and slumps.....Thats life. Also....no matter how good you are at sarging there is always that luck factor that comes into play now and again.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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