Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Streaks versus consistency

drexler

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Hello everyone:

This is my first post on the dj forum.

I was wondering if you guys go on streaks the way I do? I mean, one month I'll feel unstoppable and lay many hb's and then subsequently find myself completely off my game the next month. Is it normal to have hot and cold streaks the way I do? Any tips on improving my consistency and not allowing myself to go "cold."

Drexler
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WC2

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Life is full of streaks and slumps. Nothing is ever consistent. Take the slumps in stride, let it roll of your shoulders. When you're on, live it up to your fullest :)
 

GatorBait

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Welcome to the forums, I'm new myself.

I've also found that sometimes on streaks. I think it is the fact that your confidence snowballs bigger and biggers the longer your streak goes on. You're able to approach women more easily and in a more carefree manner because you can say to yourself "I've already hooked up with all these other girls this month, who cares if I get shot-down all night tonight". Women can no longer sense any desperation from you.
 

Fash

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Man... everyone goes through streaks! and they dont have to be as much as a month apart! You can have a smoking night one night and a totally lame one the next.

As you can see in my last FR (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=104592) I was on fire on Friday but totally flopped on Saturday. But thats just life.

My personal problem is that I just cant help feeling deflated when my sarging is not successful.
 

Tomatoes

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You put to much pressure on yourself Fash. I went out the other night not wanting to pull....Just wanted to go dance with some girls and have some fun. Got 2 number closes and one kiss close.....Just the way it goes.


Everyone def goes there streaks and slumps.....Thats life. Also....no matter how good you are at sarging there is always that luck factor that comes into play now and again.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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