"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Streaks versus consistency

drexler

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Hello everyone:

This is my first post on the dj forum.

I was wondering if you guys go on streaks the way I do? I mean, one month I'll feel unstoppable and lay many hb's and then subsequently find myself completely off my game the next month. Is it normal to have hot and cold streaks the way I do? Any tips on improving my consistency and not allowing myself to go "cold."

Drexler
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WC2

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Life is full of streaks and slumps. Nothing is ever consistent. Take the slumps in stride, let it roll of your shoulders. When you're on, live it up to your fullest :)
 

GatorBait

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Welcome to the forums, I'm new myself.

I've also found that sometimes on streaks. I think it is the fact that your confidence snowballs bigger and biggers the longer your streak goes on. You're able to approach women more easily and in a more carefree manner because you can say to yourself "I've already hooked up with all these other girls this month, who cares if I get shot-down all night tonight". Women can no longer sense any desperation from you.
 

Fash

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Man... everyone goes through streaks! and they dont have to be as much as a month apart! You can have a smoking night one night and a totally lame one the next.

As you can see in my last FR (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=104592) I was on fire on Friday but totally flopped on Saturday. But thats just life.

My personal problem is that I just cant help feeling deflated when my sarging is not successful.
 

Tomatoes

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You put to much pressure on yourself Fash. I went out the other night not wanting to pull....Just wanted to go dance with some girls and have some fun. Got 2 number closes and one kiss close.....Just the way it goes.


Everyone def goes there streaks and slumps.....Thats life. Also....no matter how good you are at sarging there is always that luck factor that comes into play now and again.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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