This is not something that can really be answered effectively through the bible... and here's why.
...She lives with me! *gasp!*
Seriously, I'm not sure how to handle this.
But now that I have your attention... here's a little info on the situation.
She moved in about 2 weeks ago, which was not actually my decision, as I'm 16. Her mother kicked her out, and my stepfather had no other choice than to let her stay (this was the only place she could go, and my stepfather would have felt guilty had he not of allowed it). And I also thought that her moving in would not cause us to get closer. At the time she moved in, she had a boyfriend (and has had that one for a good 6 months), so I just didn't consider it. I didn't expect that after being a complete afc and her basically putting me into friends zone, that I would shatter all of that and have us mutually entering a relationship...
...She is a social butterfly, while I am quite the introvert (recovered social phobic). She is the extra flirty type, while still being a virgin (hooray?). I am rarely seen talking (at school anyways..), and very rarely seen flirting and/or showing affection (and it's always shocking to others how my personality seems to shift dramatically when I do start flirting), and yes, I am working on this.
But since we don't go to the same school anymore, and she lives in my house, she only sees the near-best of me. After long hours of laughter and cuddling, we gradually worked our way into more and more intimate situations... (she says i have magic fingers, and that she loves my hazel eyes and long eyelashes). So I guess the feelings finally became undeniable, woop-dee-doo. And she's very attractive herself, way above-average body with a pretty smile to match.
I'd really like to know how to keep this (and any) relationship open, peaceful, and enjoyable. Or... how to find better opportunities than this one ... because I really don't know if I should settle, because I've only liked one girl more than her, but at the same time, I'm afraid it may only be physical attraction, as some days I seem to feel nothing for her, but other days she just radiates (especially when we get close). She's gone for about a week and a half, so I have a lot of time to think about this, and I could really use the help. I just think that... maybe we only like each other because of the physical closeness from before, and I don't want that to be the foundation of the relationship, ya know? I think that if I could keep the attraction there without having to be right there, then that would probably fix my problem...
Thanks in advance. (feel free to ask any questions, but you might wanna just pm me)
...She lives with me! *gasp!*
Seriously, I'm not sure how to handle this.
But now that I have your attention... here's a little info on the situation.
She moved in about 2 weeks ago, which was not actually my decision, as I'm 16. Her mother kicked her out, and my stepfather had no other choice than to let her stay (this was the only place she could go, and my stepfather would have felt guilty had he not of allowed it). And I also thought that her moving in would not cause us to get closer. At the time she moved in, she had a boyfriend (and has had that one for a good 6 months), so I just didn't consider it. I didn't expect that after being a complete afc and her basically putting me into friends zone, that I would shatter all of that and have us mutually entering a relationship...
...She is a social butterfly, while I am quite the introvert (recovered social phobic). She is the extra flirty type, while still being a virgin (hooray?). I am rarely seen talking (at school anyways..), and very rarely seen flirting and/or showing affection (and it's always shocking to others how my personality seems to shift dramatically when I do start flirting), and yes, I am working on this.
But since we don't go to the same school anymore, and she lives in my house, she only sees the near-best of me. After long hours of laughter and cuddling, we gradually worked our way into more and more intimate situations... (she says i have magic fingers, and that she loves my hazel eyes and long eyelashes). So I guess the feelings finally became undeniable, woop-dee-doo. And she's very attractive herself, way above-average body with a pretty smile to match.
I'd really like to know how to keep this (and any) relationship open, peaceful, and enjoyable. Or... how to find better opportunities than this one ... because I really don't know if I should settle, because I've only liked one girl more than her, but at the same time, I'm afraid it may only be physical attraction, as some days I seem to feel nothing for her, but other days she just radiates (especially when we get close). She's gone for about a week and a half, so I have a lot of time to think about this, and I could really use the help. I just think that... maybe we only like each other because of the physical closeness from before, and I don't want that to be the foundation of the relationship, ya know? I think that if I could keep the attraction there without having to be right there, then that would probably fix my problem...
Thanks in advance. (feel free to ask any questions, but you might wanna just pm me)
