Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
Ok I've got a question but I've got to explain the scenario first, so bare with me on this.
Ok I recently broke up with a girl I was dating for the past 7 months. So that's that, no whining, no regreting my decision to bail on her, even when she called me after the break up to try and fix things, I still refused. I'm a huge proponent of keeping ex's as ex's for the most part. Meaning you broke up for a reason. One of our mutal friend's, her former best friend and a close friend of mine use to have a thing for me before me and my ex started messing around and dating.
However once I got together with my ex, the mutal friend pretty much backed off. Me and the mutal friend actually became very close, she'd call me everyday, we'd go to lunch, we'd party together, she'd come over to my apartment and get wasted with me etc. She's always told me she found me very attractive, she said she was sexually attracted to me and that she definitely had a crush on me when we first met. These are all drunk confessions btw....LOL I love alcohol. Towards the end of my relationship with me ex, the mutal friend was quickly annexed from my ex's friend list because my ex got very jealous that she called me all the time. This definitely upset me and its one of the reasons I bailed on my ex. I stopped hanging out with the mutal friend as much once me and my ex got serious due to her jealousy. I'd still call her and she'd still call me, we'd chill out everyonce in a while but not even close to as much as before.
So about a month ago now the former mutal friend texted me during the day telling me she was listening to a certain song and she wanted to hang out since we haven't seen eachother for weeks. I was at work during the time so I didn't get her missed call until much later. In between that time she called me again telling me that she wanted to see what was going on with my life and for me to call her. I went out to a bar after work that night and got fukin' drunk with a few friends. When I got home I gave her a call and told her we should hang out. She said since I was drunk she'd come over to my place.
When she came over I jokingly told her that me and her were definitely going to make out before she left. I was laughing and so was she. I kept on bugging her about it and she just kept laughing it off. I told her that I knew I was trashed and if she didn't want to make out just tell me and I'd drop it. She said she wanted to but that it was just weird because I kept bringing it up.
So I tell her to go lay on my bed and lets get this outta the way..LOL She follows my orders and we start making out. We both start laughing but nonetheless keep going at it. One thing leads to another and I tell her to get naked because I really wanted to sleep with her. Yes, I admit I'd never seduce a girl like this ever, but since it was such a close friend it was akward to try and be suave with her. So she easily obliges, strips off her clothes and we go at it for a bit.
I could definitely tell it was slightly akward for her and when she left everything seemed chill. However over the next few weeks she kinda stopped calling me as much or would only text me once in a while.
So here's my question. I was thinking it would be cool to be fuvk buddies with her, but if not its not a big deal. I texted her and told her I sensed she felt things were akward and that I thought we were going to be friends with benefits. I also said if that was too weird for her then its all good because I value her friendship a lot. And that's the truth guys, I could've dated this girl a while back and there were numerous times I could've fuvked her brains out before I was with my ex but I wasn't into her back then. She texted me agreeing that it was a little akward but its all good. I just want to know if there's a way I can get her as a fuvk buddy while still maintaining our close friendship? I would totally be down to date her if she felt the same way but its not a big deal to me.
Any thoughts on how I can make her feel more comfortable around me? I think she felt it was akward because we've been good friends for a while now and then we suddenly hooked up. Not to mention that she probably feels like a rebound hook up, since she was the first girl I fuvked after I left my ex. I know not really the best situation to make a "friend" feel comfortable.
PIMP
Ok I recently broke up with a girl I was dating for the past 7 months. So that's that, no whining, no regreting my decision to bail on her, even when she called me after the break up to try and fix things, I still refused. I'm a huge proponent of keeping ex's as ex's for the most part. Meaning you broke up for a reason. One of our mutal friend's, her former best friend and a close friend of mine use to have a thing for me before me and my ex started messing around and dating.
However once I got together with my ex, the mutal friend pretty much backed off. Me and the mutal friend actually became very close, she'd call me everyday, we'd go to lunch, we'd party together, she'd come over to my apartment and get wasted with me etc. She's always told me she found me very attractive, she said she was sexually attracted to me and that she definitely had a crush on me when we first met. These are all drunk confessions btw....LOL I love alcohol. Towards the end of my relationship with me ex, the mutal friend was quickly annexed from my ex's friend list because my ex got very jealous that she called me all the time. This definitely upset me and its one of the reasons I bailed on my ex. I stopped hanging out with the mutal friend as much once me and my ex got serious due to her jealousy. I'd still call her and she'd still call me, we'd chill out everyonce in a while but not even close to as much as before.
So about a month ago now the former mutal friend texted me during the day telling me she was listening to a certain song and she wanted to hang out since we haven't seen eachother for weeks. I was at work during the time so I didn't get her missed call until much later. In between that time she called me again telling me that she wanted to see what was going on with my life and for me to call her. I went out to a bar after work that night and got fukin' drunk with a few friends. When I got home I gave her a call and told her we should hang out. She said since I was drunk she'd come over to my place.
When she came over I jokingly told her that me and her were definitely going to make out before she left. I was laughing and so was she. I kept on bugging her about it and she just kept laughing it off. I told her that I knew I was trashed and if she didn't want to make out just tell me and I'd drop it. She said she wanted to but that it was just weird because I kept bringing it up.
So I tell her to go lay on my bed and lets get this outta the way..LOL She follows my orders and we start making out. We both start laughing but nonetheless keep going at it. One thing leads to another and I tell her to get naked because I really wanted to sleep with her. Yes, I admit I'd never seduce a girl like this ever, but since it was such a close friend it was akward to try and be suave with her. So she easily obliges, strips off her clothes and we go at it for a bit.
I could definitely tell it was slightly akward for her and when she left everything seemed chill. However over the next few weeks she kinda stopped calling me as much or would only text me once in a while.
So here's my question. I was thinking it would be cool to be fuvk buddies with her, but if not its not a big deal. I texted her and told her I sensed she felt things were akward and that I thought we were going to be friends with benefits. I also said if that was too weird for her then its all good because I value her friendship a lot. And that's the truth guys, I could've dated this girl a while back and there were numerous times I could've fuvked her brains out before I was with my ex but I wasn't into her back then. She texted me agreeing that it was a little akward but its all good. I just want to know if there's a way I can get her as a fuvk buddy while still maintaining our close friendship? I would totally be down to date her if she felt the same way but its not a big deal to me.
Any thoughts on how I can make her feel more comfortable around me? I think she felt it was akward because we've been good friends for a while now and then we suddenly hooked up. Not to mention that she probably feels like a rebound hook up, since she was the first girl I fuvked after I left my ex. I know not really the best situation to make a "friend" feel comfortable.
PIMP