"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Strange proposal from a girl

Kitsune

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OK, this hasn't happened to me personally but has happened to a good friend of mine, he needs advice on his situation and wants to know what to do.

Bascially, he was sitting in the college library one day and reasonably hot looking girl (~HB7-8) came up to him and said something along the lines of:

"Heya, my name is "____", I'm 26, and I did my bachelors at "x", my masters at "y", and my doctors at "z", I'm thinking of emigrating to the United States and I've already got my visa. I was wondering if you would like to come with me, and maybe we could settle down together?"

I joke not, and the girl looked pretty serious, even handed him her mobile phone number (which, incidentally, was real) and told him where she lived. Under any normal circumstances the reply would be "Don't trust this girl, she's playing a really sick joke on you and would like to see your reaction." But on the basis that she actually gave him a working telephone number, and what essentially sounded like a possible marriage proposal, or, failing that, a definite "yes" to "Will you go our with me?"

I mean, how would you react to that?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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joekerr31

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ummmm 'me no speaka english sowwy'

psycho chic, stay away.

J
 

Jariel

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The same thing happened to me. This woman asked me to go to America with her and when I said no, she kept hounding me and countering my excuses.

So here I am somewhere in America with this fairly hot girl. It's not too bad. She let's me out of the cellar every weekend and she only beats me when I disagree with her. She says we're going to get married as soon as I can walk again!
 

brenbaus

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this b!tch is crazy

^^^nuff said
 

Scoiland

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stay away as far as possible

either she is nuts or she is playing a joke on this person
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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nishbuk

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Originally posted by Jariel
The same thing happened to me. This woman asked me to go to America with her and when I said no, she kept hounding me and countering my excuses.

So here I am somewhere in America with this fairly hot girl. It's not too bad. She let's me out of the cellar every weekend and she only beats me when I disagree with her. She says we're going to get married as soon as I can walk again!
ROFL
 
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