Strange (maybe not?) feelings after night with girl at my place

[lizardking82]

I had this girl come to my place, we talked since about a week, "sealed the deal" with texting and last night she came to my place at around 9 PM, we had sex 4 times up until around 3 AM and then we managed to sleep for about 4 hours, waking up not much longer than about 2 hours ago.

I enjoyed the evening and the sex with her quite a lot, but after we woke up, she was in the mood for sex again, me though, not so much. Had 2 hours of gym yesterday and an intense sex session last night with little sleep, was not feeling so much in for it, but I got hard somehow and we went at it again for a short while before I quit cause I got soft LOL

Now she's all clingy and sh1t, wanting to kiss all the time and cuddle and all that and while that is cute somehow, it seems like too much to me. Or I am maybe just not used to this and it feels strange or is it just normal male behaviour of "wanting to escape and be alone after this whole thing"?

If you've felt similarly, I would like to know.

 

[Desdinova]

Enjoy the little nympho while you've got her. Just see her as much as you want to and don't worry about her neediness.

 

[ohrein]

it seems like too much to me

It might be. The clingers that seem overly attached, especially early, tend to be full blown psychos later on. I escaped one who had a rage outburst on a second date. A friend had to get the cops involved with his last clinger.

Or I am maybe just not used to this and it feels strange or is it just normal male behaviour of "wanting to escape and be alone after this whole thing"?

What aren't you used to? I think it's normal to get tired of someone after extended periods of time together and want some space. When I first started dating my girlfriend, after 48 hours together and sex all night and morning, I couldn't get enough. As the months have gone on, that initial infatuation has waned a bit. I do have times when I need my own space again. Usually just say I have something to do and she goes home. I usually do have something to do so.

 

[Spaz]

Nothing seems off, pretty normal behaviour of a young girl that just got an amazing fvck.

I'd say all girls are like that after the initial 1st fvck, even sluts do it lol.

To me it's a red flag if they don't - and I'm the problem.

Edit: Yeah, I too feel the need to disengage from all the lovey dovey stuff after s€x....

 

[Murk]

Happened to me last night/this morning.

Matched some girl on tinder last week, she drove all the way into central london at 1am last night to pick me up and take me home.

We chilled at mine, I smoked some of her weed and we banged. I recorded her sucking me off for about 10 minutes, came 2-3 times, told her my aunt was coming over and she needed to leave. As usual, she looked miserable and I really don't give a fvck I've been quite strict with turfing these broads out of my place before 12pm the next day.

0 time for that lovey dovey **** unless she's exceptional, my penis is sore again, I masturbated 2 times to the videos I recorded after she'd left.

 

[Reykhel]

I had this girl come to my place, we talked since about a week, "sealed the deal" with texting and last night she came to my place at around 9 PM, we had sex 4 times up until around 3 AM and then we managed to sleep for about 4 hours, waking up not much longer than about 2 hours ago.

I enjoyed the evening and the sex with her quite a lot, but after we woke up, she was in the mood for sex again, me though, not so much. Had 2 hours of gym yesterday and an intense sex session last night with little sleep, was not feeling so much in for it, but I got hard somehow and we went at it again for a short while before I quit cause I got soft LOL

Now she's all clingy and sh1t, wanting to kiss all the time and cuddle and all that and while that is cute somehow, it seems like too much to me. Or I am maybe just not used to this and it feels strange or is it just normal male behaviour of "wanting to escape and be alone after this whole thing"?

If you've felt similarly, I would like to know.

Ain't nothing going on here but a little humble brag......

Only Walter Mitty will know if it even happened.

I masturbated 2 times to the videos I recorded after she'd left.

A little bit more information than we needed.

that being said, you bang a girl all night and some more the next morning......and you still feel the need to pull the belly off yourself?

 

[spred]

LK is all good, normal because you spent a lot of time together.
No worries, do some **** you enjoy.