"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Strange compliments

Kaizen

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Something that I have found to be pretty effective and very entertaining to do is giving odd ball compliments. "hey, I dont know anyone has ever told you thing, but you have the most cutest feet!" (I found something very interesting about feet, wich I'll post in another thread) or ears, nose, collar bone, posture, laugh, blinking. Just a strange, but still very flattering compliment. My analysis of this is that it makes the guy more unique because he isnt looking at the obviuos eyes, lips, hair, clothes... blah blah blah. Also, more sincere, honest. The compliment really sticks too. They always remember that one.. but they'll forget any ordinary compliment almost as soon as they hear it. Also to watch them stumble around trying to figure how to react is so entertaining. It just totally knocks them off their feet.

Just wanted to know if anyone else tried this and how they did with it? Its fun and worth trying if you havent :)
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Complimenting someones feet... Hmm.. I'd never do it because they may think you have a foot fetish, which is all well and good if you do.

But what if you don't and they expect you to go down and suck their sweaty toes. Could you be landing the wrong type of girl with this move? :eek: :(
 

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Originally posted by Chewy Bagel
I've complimented a girl on her blonde eyebrows :) I really wanted to see the matching carpet.
hahaha!
 

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A compliment has to be sincere in order for the girl to like it, and it's better not to compliment her on her physical appearance (first time you see her & the first few dates), but I once complimented a girl on her feet once because she had painted her toe-nails blue with yellow stripes (not common), and then she was like "wow! you're the first to notice! :D" and it seemed like she had done it at a salon or something.

Originally posted by don_juan_20
Complimenting someones feet... Hmm.. I'd never do it because they may think you have a foot fetish, which is all well and good if you do.
Are you saying it's bad if they think you have a foot fetish? and are you saying it's good if you do have a foot fetish? if you meant that it's good, I'm confused, why? :confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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These are my go-to's. I love doing unusual compliments. My favorites are the cheek bones. When she's smiling, I may go "I just noticed that you have the cutest pair of cheeks. Kind of like the angels you see on greeting cards." (Not a verbatim rendition.) It works like a charm, because she's never really paid much attention to it but she will now, and every time she does she thinks of me in a good way, etc.
 

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Women love it when you compliment something unusual. Its a reminder to them
 

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"I like your cameltoe"

LMAO
 
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