"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Strange algorithm behavior for Tinder after relocating

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I had been in Eastern Europe (EE), and getting a lot of decent chicks that would be served up, but now I am back in North America (NA) for a few months, and at first, I was getting a lot of hits from decently attractive women (yes, they were garbage tat-hores, but otherwise decent looking). But then after a few minutes, it was like the app recalibrated, and I started getting fat single mommies and ethnic chicks. :mad: I figure what had happened is that I was getting a certain level of decent chicks that were selecting me while in EE, and so when I got to NA, the algorithm kept picking out decently attractive women, but then some real-time information of these decent-looking chicks rejecting me got observed, so it started giving me these dregs. :mad:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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