"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Strange algorithm behavior for Tinder after relocating

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I had been in Eastern Europe (EE), and getting a lot of decent chicks that would be served up, but now I am back in North America (NA) for a few months, and at first, I was getting a lot of hits from decently attractive women (yes, they were garbage tat-hores, but otherwise decent looking). But then after a few minutes, it was like the app recalibrated, and I started getting fat single mommies and ethnic chicks. :mad: I figure what had happened is that I was getting a certain level of decent chicks that were selecting me while in EE, and so when I got to NA, the algorithm kept picking out decently attractive women, but then some real-time information of these decent-looking chicks rejecting me got observed, so it started giving me these dregs. :mad:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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