"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Straightforward way to get Women's Digits

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Well, the other day I'd gone to the bookstore in my local mall, and I noticed that the girl they had at the register was pretty good looking. Maybe an HB 7. So when I was buying my book (WTF College edition) we struck up a conversation about it. I showed her some of the funny ones and she was giggling and taking it all in. I bought the book and just before I was about to leave, I thought I don't even know your name!
I said Before I leave, give me your name so I can put it into my phone.
HB 7: Jenny :D
Typed it into my phone and gave it to her and she put her number into my phone. Today, I called the number, and she answered, she totally remembered who I was and now we have a date planned for the movies.

So I guess what I'm trying to say is: Assume that by the end of your interaction, she will give you your number. But it's easier when you seem more interested in her (i.e her name) and not her digits. So ask for a girl's name and put it into the phone, then give it to her. She'll get the idea. :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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:D I did the same thing today with a beautiful girl (HB 9.5) that I was sitting next to in the library at school. I asked for her name after we chatted about school and other things. Then I gave her my number and she called me right there :whistle:
 

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Its one of those things: "why didnt i think of it first".

Simple and effective.

Thanks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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