"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Straightforward way to get Women's Digits

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Well, the other day I'd gone to the bookstore in my local mall, and I noticed that the girl they had at the register was pretty good looking. Maybe an HB 7. So when I was buying my book (WTF College edition) we struck up a conversation about it. I showed her some of the funny ones and she was giggling and taking it all in. I bought the book and just before I was about to leave, I thought I don't even know your name!
I said Before I leave, give me your name so I can put it into my phone.
HB 7: Jenny :D
Typed it into my phone and gave it to her and she put her number into my phone. Today, I called the number, and she answered, she totally remembered who I was and now we have a date planned for the movies.

So I guess what I'm trying to say is: Assume that by the end of your interaction, she will give you your number. But it's easier when you seem more interested in her (i.e her name) and not her digits. So ask for a girl's name and put it into the phone, then give it to her. She'll get the idea. :up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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:D I did the same thing today with a beautiful girl (HB 9.5) that I was sitting next to in the library at school. I asked for her name after we chatted about school and other things. Then I gave her my number and she called me right there :whistle:
 

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Its one of those things: "why didnt i think of it first".

Simple and effective.

Thanks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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