"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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straight up SLUTS

donjuan matteo

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You guys know the kind of women I am talking about.

The kind of girl that shortly after getting to know her, you pick up those little *clues* that tell you, "this girl has definitely been around the block too many times" and then a little buzzer goes off in your head *this girl is a slut.....

...great! Now...how do I not mess this up and F close this deal ASAP?*

The first step is you need to be aware of those clues. (I once dated a girl who until this moment I didn't know was a slut until she memntioned over our first dinner, "I just need a good ****, *laugh*") Well that was an easy F close that night, but they are not usually so obvious.

From my own experience, sluts in general have a very low sense of self worth, but can still be difficult to close if they are attractive and get hit on alot. The guys she actually ****ed, while not a huge challenge, obviously did something right.

Once you realize you are dealing with a slut, you need to get in it your head RIGHT AWAY that your ONLY goal with this chick is an F close. Preferably that day, within the week at the latest. Agree/disagree?

stories? suggestions?

In closing I just want to say I always prefer a good girl to a slut, but a when you realize you've met a slut, take it for what is is, a gift. Have fun, and don't fcuk it up :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I think that by the time you finished putting your thoughts into how to not mess this up, her legs are going to be closed.
 

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yah yah sluts.. there cool, you dont even need to f close them, thats what THEY do best..;)
 

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Usually Sluts tend to have some sort of a psycholgical/ personality problem that tend to cause them to sleep with many men as oppose of trying to establish a relationship with them.

Its the opposite for a guy who seem to have psychological/personality problems if he is not getting any for a very long time or is a virgin for a long time. More then Half of the guys here have that problem and they are trying to correct that behaviour.

I normally try to avoid sluts because they bring alot of baggage into your life (don't think that she will just have sex with you and then leave it won't be as simple as that!)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SageOFAllenAge

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How do you not get any kind of STD from the slut? :confused:

Thats the only reason i keep my distance from them, since they are more likely ...
 

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After talking to this particular chick on the phone, she started talking about sex, so I accused her of being sexually frustrated, she responded, "I'm a deprived nympho", then she let out that slut laugh mentioned above. I made sure I gave her the beef stick, we'll she actually grabed it after I smelled her neck, shoulders, and face for a few minutes in my car.
 

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yeah sluts are kind a turn on and kinda not. I mean they are sexual which is good but they'v been with 2 many men. Of course they may like to try more kinky stuff like ass ****ing
 
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Don't be so harsh - most of the girls whom you call "slut" are the "girlfriends" and "wives" of the masses!!!!
 

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What I know about sluts is that while they tend to be more openly sexually and more open minded is that they are just as manipulative and conniving as the other girl.

She does have a history with 20-30 whatever guys, just as long as she's clean it's alright. She's not much different from the girl that has had 2-3 guys.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DjDreamer

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Originally posted by DeathDealer
She does have a history with 20-30 whatever guys, just as long as she's clean it's alright. She's not much different from the girl that has had 2-3 guys.
True...

Thank goodness for all those clean sluts...they make DJing a little less stressful...they provide the much needed social proof...
 

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What I know about sluts is that while they tend to be more openly sexually and more open minded is that they are just as manipulative and conniving as the other girl.

Not really. Sluts are usually alot worse if you spend a long time with them. Sluts are really f***ed up. Trust me. I know by expirience.

She does have a history with 20-30 whatever guys, just as long as she's clean it's alright. She's not much different from the girl that has had 2-3 guys.

Again... It's all good as long as she's clean but how do you know that? :confused:. Also they are different from girls that has had about 2-3 different guys. You just haven't realized that because sluts are normally a one night thing therefore you don't really get to know them (And you don't want to know them either). From personal expiriences though sluts are REALLY REALLY ****ed up. Thats just one reason why you like 95% of all other guys just want the easy fvck and nothing more from them.

Usually Sluts tend to have some sort of a psycholgical/ personality problem that tend to cause them to sleep with many men as oppose of trying to establish a relationship with them.

This is very true.
 
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