Straight to the POINT ADVICE FOR ALL AFC'S!!

[ToughLove]

1) start being sexual, girls wanna be fcuked by a man who knows how to pleasure them.........so learn how, and then make your move, it is NEVER "disrespectful" to escalate into sexualness

2) learn that you have balls, and that your AFC fears are retarded......you will regret ever having them the instant before you die.........if you wanna fear things, fear war, fear disease, fear guns, whatever actually MAKES SENSE.......fearing beautiful women is absolutely GAY (honestly, it is GAY)

3) don't have one girlfriend who you are exclusive with......have anywhere from 2-5, its called a "team" (copyright Player Supreme), you have different girls to go out with and get close with all week long, and you will NEVER get obsessed over any of them

4) LOOKS MATTER - go to the gym, wear some hot clothes, accesorize, dont look like a loser basically.......we all know what a loser looks like, dont look like that, DONE DEAL

5) ALWAYS LIVE IN THE PRESENT.............you get rejected 100000 times in a row last month? great no one cares.......you have ONE LIFE, its your job to LIVE IT........keep that shyt going, because even if you are the biggest loser in the world, you WILL find that girl of your dreams who loves you even if you get rejected 100000 times before that.............NOBODY CARES ABOUT YOUR REJECTIONS........seriously, think about it........are there ANY people out there that care about the fact that u get rejected??? NO??? ok neither should you!!! put your ego aside in your search for love (if that is what you are looking for)


6) ALWAYS HAVE FUN. Dont look too serious, too stiff, too creepy.....just.........DONT

if you feel like u dont know to have fun, then seriously please just get DRUNK.......dont make it an addiction but get drunk and see what it feels like to have fun, alcohol has the effect on you that resembles something very close to FUN

7) (most important advice of the thread)...........hey YOU, yea YOU, you little pvssy..........are you happy with your life? are you happy with how its going??? approach anxiety? AFC'ness? whats that?????? you actually dont take the fullest advantage of every situation with girls????

YOU DO KNOW THAT YOU WILL DIE AND YOU WILL NOT HAVE A SECOND CHANCE>...................loser, sit there and worry about trivial shyt, you are just wasting your life, and you don't get another one............so when you have wrinkles, just know, that u CANT go back and do it over.......all you can do is sit there, and wallow, and wallow, and wallow about WHAT COULD HAVE BEEN.........u peice of shyt you are SO worthless with your pvssy azzed thinking

8) GET THE HELL OUT THERE AND HAVE SOME FUN


(i love inspiring people, i hope this did just that)

 

[Ryan69]

Pretty much all nonsense written above


Guys don't FEAR attractive girls. They get a little nervous around them. Girls get a little nervous when around attractive guys. It's called being human

Having a bunch of girlfriends(playing them) is for insecure guys who need backup. If a girl really likes you be honest with her. Girls just aren't something you fvck and be done with. You should treat all people with respect

 

[ToughLove]

Pretty much all nonsense written above


Guys don't FEAR attractive girls. They get a little nervous around them. Girls get a little nervous when around attractive guys. It's called being human

Having a bunch of girlfriends(playing them) is for insecure guys who need backup. If a girl really likes you be honest with her. Girls just aren't something you fvck and be done with. You should treat all people with respect

its respectful to treat girls according to how the game goes

how big of a chump are YOU? tell me of your successes

 

[Ryan69]

its respectful to treat girls according to how the game goes

It's not a game thats my point.

 

[ToughLove]

its respectful to treat girls according to how the game goes

It's not a game thats my point.

it is a game cuz girls make it a game

5% of girls are not a game, 95% are




play your player game, and when you find that 5%, stop playing the game


dude are you seriously a chump? are u good with girls? gimme some backup to your beliefs here

 

[reset]

Pretty much all nonsense written above


Guys don't FEAR attractive girls. They get a little nervous around them. Girls get a little nervous when around attractive guys. It's called being human

Having a bunch of girlfriends(playing them) is for insecure guys who need backup. If a girl really likes you be honest with her. Girls just aren't something you fvck and be done with. You should treat all people with respect

I'm not sure you'll be allowed to post after this.

How dare you go against the grain. Interactions between men and women is a game, built on both parties being completely phony and manipulative towards each other.

 

[Ryan69]

How dare you go against the grain. Interactions between men and women is a game, built on both parties being completely phony and manipulative towards each other.



yes in high school


I didn't think this was the high school forum.

 

[TonyWongButOhSoRite]

All good points man. Especially the stuff about not getting a 2nd chance and all that. Ive wasted alot of time being a ***** and made a post on here yeterday about it. I went back out 2day and got myself a a date for saturday and also sigend up to do my leaveing cert (High school's final big tests before ya leave or whatever you call them!!) cause I droped out when I was 16 but im going back to do it now and will have it done next year when im 19, I still need to bulk up abit cause im to skinny and **** and fully get confidence in myself but im trying and im sure i'll do it.

 

[ToughLove]

How dare you go against the grain. Interactions between men and women is a game, built on both parties being completely phony and manipulative towards each other.



yes in high school


I didn't think this was the high school forum.

you are a bitter AFC, correct?

you hate all those "immature girls who play games" when if fact ALL of the girls that u want to fcuk are those same immature girls who play games!@!

get outta the matrix and wake up!!

u want a good girl who doesnt play games? leave america

 

[Ryan69]

it is a game cuz girls make it a game

mature girls don't make it a game. If you don't want drama and games find more intelligent, mature ladies

I will agree it's tough avoiding games with teenaged girls. I think most people responding other than myself are high-school aged posters

 

[reset]

Ryan wouldn't you agree that women only want what they can't have, and once they know you like them, they are through with you forever?

 

[Interceptor]

Woah, dude.
Ryan, WTF is up?
Dude, you will be in for a rude awakening, my man.


Out there the world can be a bitter, heartless, and cold place.

If you're not ready to deal with the reality, you better stay home.

Women will do amazing things that will blow yourmind. You will not believe the most innocent chick can do the most manipulaticve, cold, or perverted things.

You better disconnect from the matric, my friend.

You will be a little more cold, and calculating...to an extent.
But you will have ahigher survival rate.
And you will learn how to deal with women, and hoefully, God willing, you will know how to put them in their place.

Dude, do not look at the women you want to fvck or even marry in the sam eway as your mom.

Respect is a two way street.
And women will play games with your head because it's natural fo rhtem to do so.

Flaking?

"Oh,You were waiting for me? I thought you said seven thirty? My bad." Notice, she didn't give an excuse or apology.

Lying?

"I tried to call you, but your phone was busy."
Realizing that you may have voice mail, or call waiting. And she will say it with a straight face, totally justified. And oblivious to how important it is to a man for a woman to be hionest, and responsible when she fvcks up. Intentionally, or not. Playing "oblivious": is NOT something that is right.

Playing with your feelings is NEVER acceptable. Yet they do it.
Those women are called B1tches.
And if you don't understand the Game, the reality of women, the stark , cold, and recoiling truth behind women....you will be eaten alive.


Dude, we shoudl treat all people with respect.
But when we're dealing with romantic/sexual relationships.......

....the Game is on.

Until you find Ms. Right.


How will you find her if you don't know what you're doing?

If you don't even know who you're dealing with??????

Unplug yourself from the Matrix.
You will be thankful.
And the women in your life will be thankful too.
Why?

Becasue you know now how to navigate the shark infested waters.
You are no longer a little boy.
Mommy can't help you here.

 

[Analytic]

I need a good kick in the ass and you deliver, nice one man!

 

[Ryan69]

Ryan wouldn't you agree that women only want what they can't have, and once they know you like them, they are through with you forever?


Yes in high-school. 100% AGREE. Bottom line is mature women say 25 and over don't act like this ( I said mature) you can find game players, head cases at any age. These women are not mature

use common sense when getting involved with a girl. You can tell how mature she is pretty fast

 

[reset]

I'm just playing devil's advocate with you.

Although, in the seduction "game" you'll read that it's a sin to let a girl know how you feel. I've seen both sides of this. That's been my biggest challenge I suppose. I have no problem with putting girls in their place, saying no, being sexual, ****y, confident, elusive, getting them to chase... but once I meet a girl who seems to be on the level I may be so happy about it that I'll flap my lips a little. Supposedly the girl is always supposed to let you know first. But I've been told that I'm so mysterious and guarded... even after I've said what I'm feeling. I'm working on it.

I guess the factor here is learning to distinguish from girls who still have that high school mentality, and girls who are grown up. Until you're sure she's grown up, you just have to keep that mental checklist inside of all the BS you've experienced with women. You'll know how to spot it, how to manage it, not to get attached to the outcome, etc. etc.

In this sense I agree with Interceptor. I think there's a point where you stop worrying about being a DJ and focus more on being a happy, confident man who enjoys his life. You're not as likely to get caught up in drama and BS because you're seeing the bigger picture.

 

[Ryan69]

Women will do amazing things that will blow yourmind. You will not believe the most innocent chick can do the most manipulaticve, cold, or perverted things.


I dated a girl who I later found out was a borderline persoanlity disorder. I knew she was not mature and was a head case 2 weeks after meeting her. I ignored all warning signs for the simple reason she was HOT and we had some good times with each other

We dated for 9 LONG months before she moved on. It's my faut since I knew she was a basket case months prior. I should have moved on first along time ago

We all have stories like this. So do girls about other guys. That being said the world has plenty of girls who don't manipulate, lie, etc. It should'nt give you an excuse to have 5 girlfriends at once becuase she in the end might hurt you. take a chance and grow some balls. Let the guard down and quit the games. You will be amazed how many hot, sweet, fun girls you will meet

if you wanna just play games you will find many girls of the same ilk

 

[reset]

Oh dude, chicks with BPD? Tons of fun. And the longer you're with them the easier it is to not get caught up in their world. (sarcasm).

Actually my experience with an extremely hot BPD chick drove me to the point where I was insane. When you get freaked out like that, it's hard to see any girl in a positive light, becuase you've seen the beast that lies underneath.

Since then I have been super freaking careful about letting my guard down at all, and as soon as I do I regret it. I'm at the point where I may be able to trust a girl again, but I'm not sure.

 

[Ryan69]

Oh dude, chicks with BPD? Tons of fun. And the longer you're with them the easier it is to not get caught up in their world. (sarcasm).


That is funny. LOL

You know all about BPD. I can tell already

 

[reset]

Yeah. Something I like to call, "my huge frickin' wake up call".

I came out the other side, held out long enough and she finally gave up and left me in peace. Actually she ran away.

In the end it was a blessing because it forced me to learn all about this stuff. Now that some of the bitterness has faded I'm becoming a bit more mellow. But it's only because I'm confident enough to refuse to tolerate BS in any form now.

 

[Interceptor]

I'm just playing devil's advocate with you.

Although, in the seduction "game" you'll read that it's a sin to let a girl know how you feel. I've seen both sides of this. That's been my biggest challenge I suppose. I have no problem with putting girls in their place, saying no, being sexual, ****y, confident, elusive, getting them to chase... but once I meet a girl who seems to be on the level I may be so happy about it that I'll flap my lips a little.



Reset, happens to the best of us. It's because what we see is fresh and exciting. We, as Lovers of Women, can't help but be excited and passionate about what we're experience with a a chick that clicks with us. We just need to be even more on our A Game with these. I know it sounds logical, and sommn sense but most guys lose it when the chick they really really want is in front of them.Yeah, sure, they're great wth all the others, but when your IDEAL, Ms. Right comes along. We all tend to go a little AFCish, becasue we fvckin want her so bad, after dealing with so many low quality hos. We want it now, and we often don't cae..we just want her to be ours..right now! So sometimes the validation routine pops out instead of a Qulaifying HER mentality and frame. All guys need work on this.
Why?
Because the vast, overwhelming majority of us have yet to experienc a quailty woman. If we did, we wouldn't be on here. That's why it can never be about a techique or routine. If you don't unite your Dream and Day, and embrace yourSELF, and your sexuality and masculinity...YOU WILL MISS THE BOAT. She will see through you, and NEXT YOU! Because you're NOT READY , dude!!
We have to be ready.
ALl of us.
Ready for the fight, the game, the dance, the ritual.
The hot and heavym, nasty is waiting for us.
But we can't get down unless we have "A GAME", not B Game, or Z game.
A GAME, me lads.



Supposedly the girl is always supposed to let you know first. But I've been told that I'm so mysterious and guarded...


This is not bad. This IS what you want. Don't vomit out the 'feelings" And don't ever come acrioss asd indecisive or needy or needing HER validation. Other than that. Give them bits and pieces. Always confident, and always congruent. A chick is just feeling you out. You let her cop a feel. But not too much. You give her everything too soon, and you lose the spark you wanteed to create. You kill that spark.
Always look a it from the other persepective.
Would you be attracted that just goeas on and on about her problems and insecurities, and difficulties dealing with?
Does that make your johnson sing with desire?

NO?

Then you know what not to do.




even after I've said what I'm feeling. I'm working on it.

I guess the factor here is learning to distinguish from girls who still have that high school mentality, and girls who are grown up.

Absolutely right.

Until you're sure she's grown up, you just have to keep that mental checklist inside of all the BS you've experienced with women. You'll know how to spot it, how to manage it, not to get attached to the outcome, etc. etc.


That is it. Attainement of the Don Juan charcater. You have internalized the "material" and "technique". This is SOOOO important.
You must get rid of the training wheels and crutches, and you can only do so by internalization, and just becoming.


In this sense I agree with Interceptor. I think there's a point where you stop worrying about being a DJ and focus more on being a happy, confident man who enjoys his life. You're not as likely to get caught up in drama and BS because you're seeing the bigger picture.



Embrace your Desire.
Embrace your Masculinity.
Embrace your happiness.
Embrace the Don Juan lifestyle.
And accept the good women, and reject the bad ones.
Unite Dream and Day.

Hope this helps a little. Time for bed. Good night, fellas.

Think about this stufff. It applies to everyone here.
You need this.
You need it so you can be free, and you can be happy, so you can have true love, and you can live the life YOU want to live.