"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MrLuvr said:
Taking pictures with a lot of girls is different from actually pulling them. Of course it does increase his chances though.

And btw, I don't think he ever said he is pulling all those women.
I have had sex with three of them and "messed around" with several others. The others are totally platonic.

And yes, it increases my chances exponentially.

Two of the girls and one of the guys in the pics are my "hubs" for meeting lots of women.

Actually there are a handful of girls that are responsible for me knowing the rest of them.

Then all it takes is one of them in each group to take an interest, and the competition dynamic comes out in full force, and it all builds on itself.

It's sweet.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MrLuvr said:
I thought you were the guy who posted some pics of you with longer hair a while ago. And said you were at a playboy mansion party or something.

I must be confusing you with someone else on here.

Eric L!ve. They do have similar M.O.'s.
 

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You forgot Chucky! :eek:
 

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Anyone else too chicken to put a picture on here?

I'm not worried about what people will say about my looks, just more scared sh!tless that one of my bosses might somehow run into it someday while they're surfing the web. I post some illicit stuff on here sometimes. I just recently posted a thread looking for advice about how to handle one of my bosses who is being a jerk off to me now.

I guess if someone wants to see a picture of me they can PM me. Don't worry, I won't think it's weird or anything if you do. It's only natural curiosity for us to wonder what other posters look like. I just don't want to link anything in a public forum.
 

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Deep Dish said:
You forgot Chucky! :eek:
I guess in the spirit of Halloween I SHOULD post a picture of Chucky. He might scare some of the ladies but we all know that any emotion is better than NO emotion when it comes to women.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ahh screw it. Here is what I look like. For a limited time only:


I figure what's the chances of an employer seeing that in the 24-hour period it is online. Very slim to none I think.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Good to see you are still around Cesare. Sent you a PM.....
 

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PW doen't work for me either. what is the new pw, str8up?
 
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