"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MrLuvr said:
Taking pictures with a lot of girls is different from actually pulling them. Of course it does increase his chances though.

And btw, I don't think he ever said he is pulling all those women.
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I have had sex with three of them and "messed around" with several others. The others are totally platonic.

And yes, it increases my chances exponentially.

Two of the girls and one of the guys in the pics are my "hubs" for meeting lots of women.

Actually there are a handful of girls that are responsible for me knowing the rest of them.

Then all it takes is one of them in each group to take an interest, and the competition dynamic comes out in full force, and it all builds on itself.

It's sweet.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MrLuvr said:
I thought you were the guy who posted some pics of you with longer hair a while ago. And said you were at a playboy mansion party or something.

I must be confusing you with someone else on here.
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Eric L!ve. They do have similar M.O.'s.
 
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You forgot Chucky! :eek:
 
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Anyone else too chicken to put a picture on here?

I'm not worried about what people will say about my looks, just more scared sh!tless that one of my bosses might somehow run into it someday while they're surfing the web. I post some illicit stuff on here sometimes. I just recently posted a thread looking for advice about how to handle one of my bosses who is being a jerk off to me now.

I guess if someone wants to see a picture of me they can PM me. Don't worry, I won't think it's weird or anything if you do. It's only natural curiosity for us to wonder what other posters look like. I just don't want to link anything in a public forum.
 
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Deep Dish said:
You forgot Chucky! :eek:
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I guess in the spirit of Halloween I SHOULD post a picture of Chucky. He might scare some of the ladies but we all know that any emotion is better than NO emotion when it comes to women.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ahh screw it. Here is what I look like. For a limited time only:


I figure what's the chances of an employer seeing that in the 24-hour period it is online. Very slim to none I think.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Good to see you are still around Cesare. Sent you a PM.....
 
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PW doen't work for me either. what is the new pw, str8up?
 
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