"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheBucketOfTruth

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LOL I could have called this one from the beginning. It was clear from the posts that he was really just posting this hoping you guys supported the idea of sending the letter he so desperately wanted to send. When that wasn't the answer he got, he did it anyway.

In the end it may be nice to hear an apology (however empty it may be), but what really have you gained? You're right where you'd be regardless of if you sent that or not. Just don't let the next girl disrespect you like this.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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cw92

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i like how Kontroller stop responding immiediately when the OP contacted her. lol, lost cause. Thanks to listening to Kontroller i haven't contacted my ex. Just yesterday she called me out of the blue....first time in over 3+months of no contact. then texted me later. about another month ago she sent me an email.

Kontroller, there are some people you just can't unplug from the matrix. There are also some people that you need to spend so much work on that it just isn't worth helping them. i know a few of each.
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I took advice on this board not to contact my Ex as well, it pained me to do it.

If you look at my post history and read my thread, you will see the results are similar to yours. I am SO GLAD i took the advice that is so plentiful on this forum.
 
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Daniel1099

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yeah bucket got it right.

i wanted to send it thinking i would get her to say sorry at least...

i got what i wanted. but it doesnt change the fact that she disrespected me and took advantage of my easy going attitude.

i have already moved on to bigger and better things. the relationship we had was going no where anyway, i was just tryin to get my **** sucked. lmao

but thanks for all the help that i didnt listen to.

i will listen the first time i come for help next time
 
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