KontrollerX
Master Don Juan
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"so should i get on wit my life and not say a word?"
Now you're catching on.
"i want some kind of closure, or else it will just be awkward between her and me."
Another painful lesson to learn as a man is sometimes the only closure you can get is a lack of closure so to overcome that lack of closure you assign your own meaning to what happened and once again move on from there and do your best to forget about it.
"i still want to be cool with her and stuff. i just want her to know she wont get close to me again."
The problem is you say this NOW but if you continue to interact with her eventually she'll worm her way back into your life when you are vulnerable ie when you are feeling down or your defenses are not up and you meet her at a party and one thing leads to another etc, etc.
"we have been together for like 3 years, yarrameen?
and that what she did was unacceptable."
Why do you want to be cool with someone who let you know quite clearly that you are worthless to her, that went and road some other guy's c0ck?
Is she really THAT special??
She obviously didn't value your worth all that much so what is it inside of you that makes you want to be friends with or cool with garbage human beings like this???
I don't know about you but when I encounter worthless people these days I cut them out of my life like the cancer that they are.
I recognize rotten people for the garbage that they are and there is only one thing a person can sanely do with garbage and that is dispose of it.
Otherwise you'll eventually be overtaken by the stench of it or the inevitable sicknesses leaving it lay around will bring into your life.
"she still gets jealous when i flirt with other girls at school. so i KNOW she still cares...
girls dont lose feelings just like that"
Dude...
She doesn't give a SH!T about you.
You are missing the point entirely.
All she cares about via getting jealous is that another girl is getting her validation and sense of self worth which she thinks she deserves more.
If she cared about you, really cared about you, she wouldn't of went off and rode someother guy's c0ck.
Her top priority is herself and its even evidenced in her jealousy.
The jealousy is not proof of her undying love for you.
Once again it is proof that she can't stand not being #1 in some guy's mind.
Being #1 is whats important, NOT having your love.
Get that through your head my friend.
Still you can use all this to get laid by her again but until you understand that women who express how worthless you are to them are not to be loved but only used as sex objects you will continually set yourself up for bad relationships in life.
Once a woman goes and rides some other guy's c0ck and betrays you she is done as a potential love interest of yours for life.
You have to relegate all woman who screw you over in this way as mere fvck buddies never to be loved or trusted.
Now if THAT is what you want, if you are clear that she is not to be loved by you and only to be fvcked you still have to wait for her to come to you and ask why you don't talk to her anymore etc.
As the person who is forced to come to another person has the least amount of power in an interaction.
You have all the power so long as you don't make overtures to her first.
Make her come to you and inquire as to why you don't talk to her anymore.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155594
Then do exactly what Metaphysical's entire opening post says to make her earn her way back into your life slowly so she will be under your control and power.
And remember even with her under your control she is never to be loved because if you start to love this piece of trash that always leads to game over for would be DJ's/Player types.
What she did was indeed unacceptable and you need to remember that all the while you are with her and boning her anew.
Once you get that sense of satisfaction and complacency thinking your gaming has tamed her the stupid and the young would be DJ's then always fvck things up by thinking well its safe to fall in love with her again but then of course these types always end up getting played by the worthless woman for the second time because they did not understand from the first time that she was never to be loved or trusted after she broke their trust the first time then these morons come on here and are the guys that quite regularly clutter this forum up with garbage topics claiming the advice here doesn't work when no it does work but you have to actually follow it and not let the AFC inside of you take over for it to be effective.
Now you're catching on.
"i want some kind of closure, or else it will just be awkward between her and me."
Another painful lesson to learn as a man is sometimes the only closure you can get is a lack of closure so to overcome that lack of closure you assign your own meaning to what happened and once again move on from there and do your best to forget about it.
"i still want to be cool with her and stuff. i just want her to know she wont get close to me again."
The problem is you say this NOW but if you continue to interact with her eventually she'll worm her way back into your life when you are vulnerable ie when you are feeling down or your defenses are not up and you meet her at a party and one thing leads to another etc, etc.
"we have been together for like 3 years, yarrameen?
and that what she did was unacceptable."
Why do you want to be cool with someone who let you know quite clearly that you are worthless to her, that went and road some other guy's c0ck?
Is she really THAT special??
She obviously didn't value your worth all that much so what is it inside of you that makes you want to be friends with or cool with garbage human beings like this???
I don't know about you but when I encounter worthless people these days I cut them out of my life like the cancer that they are.
I recognize rotten people for the garbage that they are and there is only one thing a person can sanely do with garbage and that is dispose of it.
Otherwise you'll eventually be overtaken by the stench of it or the inevitable sicknesses leaving it lay around will bring into your life.
"she still gets jealous when i flirt with other girls at school. so i KNOW she still cares...
girls dont lose feelings just like that"
Dude...
She doesn't give a SH!T about you.
You are missing the point entirely.
All she cares about via getting jealous is that another girl is getting her validation and sense of self worth which she thinks she deserves more.
If she cared about you, really cared about you, she wouldn't of went off and rode someother guy's c0ck.
Her top priority is herself and its even evidenced in her jealousy.
The jealousy is not proof of her undying love for you.
Once again it is proof that she can't stand not being #1 in some guy's mind.
Being #1 is whats important, NOT having your love.
Get that through your head my friend.
Still you can use all this to get laid by her again but until you understand that women who express how worthless you are to them are not to be loved but only used as sex objects you will continually set yourself up for bad relationships in life.
Once a woman goes and rides some other guy's c0ck and betrays you she is done as a potential love interest of yours for life.
You have to relegate all woman who screw you over in this way as mere fvck buddies never to be loved or trusted.
Now if THAT is what you want, if you are clear that she is not to be loved by you and only to be fvcked you still have to wait for her to come to you and ask why you don't talk to her anymore etc.
As the person who is forced to come to another person has the least amount of power in an interaction.
You have all the power so long as you don't make overtures to her first.
Make her come to you and inquire as to why you don't talk to her anymore.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155594
Then do exactly what Metaphysical's entire opening post says to make her earn her way back into your life slowly so she will be under your control and power.
And remember even with her under your control she is never to be loved because if you start to love this piece of trash that always leads to game over for would be DJ's/Player types.
What she did was indeed unacceptable and you need to remember that all the while you are with her and boning her anew.
Once you get that sense of satisfaction and complacency thinking your gaming has tamed her the stupid and the young would be DJ's then always fvck things up by thinking well its safe to fall in love with her again but then of course these types always end up getting played by the worthless woman for the second time because they did not understand from the first time that she was never to be loved or trusted after she broke their trust the first time then these morons come on here and are the guys that quite regularly clutter this forum up with garbage topics claiming the advice here doesn't work when no it does work but you have to actually follow it and not let the AFC inside of you take over for it to be effective.
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