"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Storm Fear

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I watched an old black and white movie from 1956 today, called Storm Fear. It was about a bank robber who hides out with his brother in a snowstorm. Turns out that the brother's wife used to have sex with the bank robber guy and had a son with him. The brother was a beta type who married his wife to provide a home for her and her son, but she doesn't love him. Later, it is revealed that their hired handyman (played by Dennis Weaver) also is in love with her, and makes a play for her.

So all the guys in the movie are in love with, the husband, her ex-boyfriend bad boy bank robber, and the handyman. The only exception is the robber's henchman partner, who has a moll of his own. But I was thinking this really shows how sexual dynamics work in real life. If you're an attractive enough woman, all the guys want you, and you choose. She was played by Jean Wallace, if you're curious.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I actually have this movie on my digital hard-drive collection, but have yet watch it. After your review, it's now on my priority list.

About ten years ago, a forum member mentioned an interesting movie called "The Apartment" (with Jack Lemon, Shirley MacLaine, etc...) . This was before I found websites that specialize in movie downloads. Based on their review, I purchased a hard copy. You might like it. I did.

Here's a few other suggestions.

Satan in High Heels - 1962 (gritty, and similar)

Face in the Crowd - 1957 (somewhat similar, but also shows how gullible most folks are).

Faster, Pvssycat! Kill! Kill! - 1965 (great female exploitation movie)
 

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I actually have this movie on my digital hard-drive collection, but have yet watch it. After your review, it's now on my priority list.
Yeah, it's worth a watch if you like old movies. It feels a bit like a western to me, although it isn't.

Of the other movies you mentioned, I've seen A Face in the Crowd, a few times. The Apartment looks interesting, I'll put that on my list. I recently saw Jack Lemmon in a rewatch of Glengarry Glen Ross (I'm guessing you've seen it).

In short, we may watch these old films and think that they're reflecting present day society (because that's all most of us know). But what actually happened is that the films influenced the social structures that led to our reailty today.
Yeah, I doubt that many people would deny that Hollywood has had a detrimental effect on our moral standards.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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