"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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shagnscoob

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im starting to have this problem where, my phone has too many phone numbers on it, and if i let a girl enter her phone number on it, shes going to see about 100000 other girls names on there... which cant be good.

id rather just find a way to keep phone numbers that i may eventually use for a booty call or something, just, not on my phone. what do you guys do/suggest?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Vincent

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Have you ever seen Pickup Artist?

Do that.
 

Abbott

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Originally posted by shagnscoob
im starting to have this problem where, my phone has too many phone numbers on it, and if i let a girl enter her phone number on it, shes going to see about 100000 other girls names on there... which cant be good.

id rather just find a way to keep phone numbers that i may eventually use for a booty call or something, just, not on my phone. what do you guys do/suggest?
Don't let her touch your phone. Just have her tell you her number and enter it in herself.

Besides, if there's a lot of womens' phone numbers there, might that not increase your worth in their eyes? It means you must be interesting if you have phone numbers to many women.

Ben
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Be a man and deal with it. Why the hell would you hide the fact that you are popular with women? If you meet a woman that makes a comment about the telephone numbers in your phone just tell her "Don't tell me that you're one of those insecure women that feels that she has to compete with every other woman in the world!"

She will either say no and you continue entering her number or she says yes (yeah right :rolleyes: ). Would you even want to deal with a woman that admits to that anyway?

And by the way, with all those numbers in your phone, how many to you actually call or are you a number hound just collecting them so that you can have a problem like this? If you haven't talked to a women in say a month, why carry her number around with you?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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diablo

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Delete all of the numbers you haven't called (or who haven't called you) in the past week. Repeat weekly.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by diablo
Delete all of the numbers you haven't called (or who haven't called you) in the past week. Repeat weekly.
Weekly? You can't be serious. I'm rotating through only 6 or 8 different women that I go out with semi regularly (more than once a month). There's no way in hell that I would want to talk to all of them every week. Even f it were only two or three, talking to them every week would be very AFC.

Shag, keep the numbers for a month. You don't have to see them every month but you should have had some type of contact with them within that time. It could be a date, a returned phone call from her or a email she has replied to.

It's difficult to keep a woman's interest level high if you haven't had any contact with her in over a month. Let's face it, if you haven't tried to contact her in that time frame, are you even interested in her?
 
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