Stoping masterbation

[HaleyBaron]

Nofap can make you sloppy at game, too. You'll get hungry for sex and then suddenly start making dumb moves. They won't all be bad moves cause at least you're being assertive but the grass ain't always greener.

 

[soulforge]

Nofap can make you sloppy at game, too. You'll get hungry for sex and then suddenly start making dumb moves. They won't all be bad moves cause at least you're being assertive but the grass ain't always greener.

Actually this is not the case for most people who are on Semen Retention or No Fap.

Cutting out the porn and quitting jacking off makes you less desperately & hungry for sex, and actually much more disciplined.



You still want and need sex, however it's not that desperate need for sex which most men develop due to watching porn all the time.

Porn feeds the lust and desperation.. Jacking off leaves you feeling low energy & even ashamed with yourself.

Ask anyone who has quit porn and jacking off.. Cold approach becomes easier, as you feel much more confident about yourself, more eye contact.

You tend to be cooler and calmer around chicks.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Actually this is not the case for most people who are on Semen Retention or No Fap.

Cutting out the porn and quitting jacking off makes you less desperately & hungry for sex, and actually much more disciplined.



You still want and need sex, however it's not that desperate need for sex which most men develop due to watching porn all the time.

Porn feeds the lust and desperation.. Jacking off leaves you feeling low energy & even ashamed with yourself.

Ask anyone who has quit porn and jacking off.. Cold approach becomes easier, as you feel much more confident about yourself, more eye contact.

You tend to be cooler and calmer around chicks.

But I'm like that without needing to be on NoFap.

That's why I made a thread a long time ago saying that NoFap is just a placebo effect that has nothing to do with porn.

Porn is not unrealistic and NoFap is not a cure.

I repeatedly hear that porn provides unrealistic expectations to a man, so they aren't able to get hard or horny unless to the most model looking woman that is showcased around sites like pornhub and such. Both men and women feel that porn puts high expectations on them to perform and look their...

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[CountSuavula]

what books or tips and tricks did you use to stop?

The key is breathing techniques.

 

[soulforge]

But I'm like that without needing to be on NoFap.

That's why I made a thread a long time ago saying that NoFap is just a placebo effect that has nothing to do with porn.

Porn is not unrealistic and NoFap is not a cure.

I repeatedly hear that porn provides unrealistic expectations to a man, so they aren't able to get hard or horny unless to the most model looking woman that is showcased around sites like pornhub and such. Both men and women feel that porn puts high expectations on them to perform and look their...

www.sosuave.net

So you're using yourself as the marker and the example.. this is terrible methodology.

 

[corrector]

Actually this is not the case for most people who are on Semen Retention or No Fap.

Cutting out the porn and quitting jacking off makes you less desperately & hungry for sex, and actually much more disciplined.



You still want and need sex, however it's not that desperate need for sex which most men develop due to watching porn all the time.

Porn feeds the lust and desperation.. Jacking off leaves you feeling low energy & even ashamed with yourself.

Ask anyone who has quit porn and jacking off.. Cold approach becomes easier, as you feel much more confident about yourself, more eye contact.

You tend to be cooler and calmer around chicks.

The latest experience with an extended no-fap shows that it makes me more angry.

 

[soulforge]

The latest experience with an extended no-fap shows that it makes me more angry.

How long into it are you?

Like any addiction, your going to experience a variety of emotions during the withdrawal.

 

[CountSuavula]

I am very well read on this topic. I do not know much about the modern “nofap” world but it is obviously the cheapo Americanized version. It is actually embarrassing how undereducated the American people are about sexual relationships and health.

Honestly, some of the stuff you guys are posting here is like kindergarten level knowledge about sex and health. It was not a mistake either. Historians purposefully thwarted peoples real working knowledge about sex.

Do you guys honestly think that after this many hundreds of thousands of years of men and women screwing, and of humans learning about healthcare, that we STILL have not put together the pieces of the puzzle?

Man it hurts to say the truth but some of you get an F grade in understanding your own sexuality.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You just stop. It's as simple as that.

 

[CountSuavula]

You just stop. It's as simple as that.

That is the cheapo Americanized version. You learned about sex from reading Reddit. It is the equivalent of asking the kid working at McDonalds what the secret recipe is for Big Mac sauce.

 

[CountSuavula]

Guys, jerking off alone is NOT a Don Juan topic. For Gods sake move this to the Health forum.

 

[CountSuavula]

Enlighten us?

Never.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

That is the cheapo Americanized version. You learned about sex from reading Reddit. It is the equivalent of asking the kid working at McDonalds what the secret recipe is for Big Mac sauce.

This post makes zero sense in the context of what I posted.

 

[HaleyBaron]

So you're using yourself as the marker and the example.. this is terrible methodology.

Yes. But the thread says my thoughts.

 

[nismo-4]

Aww dammit!

Nofap is good, and it might make you more motivated. But you can't tell a bunch of guys playing Fortnite that if they stop jacking off, they'll have the Miami Dolphins Cheerleaders ready to swallow all their cüm a month later. Men need actual sex.

 

[SW15]

Nofap is good, and it might make you more motivated. But you can't tell a bunch of guys playing Fortnite that if they stop jacking off, they'll have the Miami Dolphins Cheerleaders ready to swallow all their cüm a month later. Men need actual sex.

I agree with this. Nofap is a good practice but it won't make you a suave seducer with elite looking women. Hardcore video gamers who manage to successfully practice nofap will not be able to seduce the average Miami Dolphins Cheerleader. Besides nofap, that guy would likely need some better combination of looks and money.

Nofap can make you sloppy at game, too.

Actually this is not the case for most people who are on Semen Retention or No Fap.

Cutting out the porn and quitting jacking off makes you less desperately & hungry for sex, and actually much more disciplined.

Ask anyone who has quit porn and jacking off.. Cold approach becomes easier, as you feel much more confident about yourself, more eye contact.

You tend to be cooler and calmer around chicks.

Nofap is good for game and won't lead to game sloppiness. Cold approaches are still challenging on nofap but a nofap guy is more confident in actually making the approaches due to his horniness. He gives off a better vibe. Even with the better vibe, cold approaching still has a low conversion rate. I agree that nofap will help a man feel better about himself, which leads to the better vibe I just mentioned.

 

[soulforge]

This is a confusion, that NoFap does that, its erroneous. He approaches better not because he retains it, its becaise he started practicing approaching. Fap or NoFap without practicing, its the same $hit. Fapping makes a man get used to his hand and porn, same with women who masturbate, they get used to their fingers, but if the guy doesn't practice approaching, he will be the same guy but horny.

True... And not true.. Most men (like me) whom practice No Fap are not novices to cold approach. We are already in the cold approach game, however practicing No Fap has given us that EXTRA edge.. For example feeling more confident & eye contact etc.

Additionally I don't know why this is, but girls seems to be a little more respective to men who are retaining, over the dude who is jacking off night after night over a pair of boobies.

Where I agree with you is, if a dude is not approaching at all, then yes, NO Fap will give him motivation to go out in the field and practice cold approach.

Something to consider.. If a man has the ability & conviction to quit porn & refrain from touching his peepee every day, then likely he was already the type of man, with the courage to approach females on the street.

Quitting porn is not easy.. Refraining from busting a nut for weeks & even months is not something you're average dude is able to pull off... The porn industry, Only Fans exists for a reason.