"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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stop threating women like objects???

MrCode

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I once spent a whole night calling a couple girls objects because they brought this up in relation to strip clubs. It was fun talking to my friend about the "objects" in the back seat while we drove to a dance club. I grinded with both of them later and could have gone further but chose not to (they weren't all that hot, I liked another girl in the group more.)

Anyhow, it was fun to turn this around on them. ****y and funny my friends.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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gruby

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2 of those 3 girls were pretty but long past fuc-k/LTR due date. I was just "being myself." Whithout overemphesizing, then again i was probably talking toomuch about the fact that i'll be working for 3 days at a fashion show where girls way hotter then those 2 will be plenty. SO i don't know maybe they got jelous. **** i need to figure out soon and i'm hoping to "work hard" to score during those 3 days.
 
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I laugh at women who say men treat women like objects - these are the same hors who dress themselves like a hor to get attention from others - they are objectifying themselves - we as men are just affirming their objectification that they have placed upon themselves.

It is attention of lust that these modern hors want and it is the attention of lust that we give them - they are not worth anything more than this!!! They make themselves into sexual objects and thus must deal with the sexual lust that is derived from their OWN objectification!!!
 

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If you don't treat woman like objects, you end up treating objects like woman.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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