"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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stop threating women like objects???

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MrCode

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I once spent a whole night calling a couple girls objects because they brought this up in relation to strip clubs. It was fun talking to my friend about the "objects" in the back seat while we drove to a dance club. I grinded with both of them later and could have gone further but chose not to (they weren't all that hot, I liked another girl in the group more.)

Anyhow, it was fun to turn this around on them. ****y and funny my friends.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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2 of those 3 girls were pretty but long past fuc-k/LTR due date. I was just "being myself." Whithout overemphesizing, then again i was probably talking toomuch about the fact that i'll be working for 3 days at a fashion show where girls way hotter then those 2 will be plenty. SO i don't know maybe they got jelous. **** i need to figure out soon and i'm hoping to "work hard" to score during those 3 days.
 
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I laugh at women who say men treat women like objects - these are the same hors who dress themselves like a hor to get attention from others - they are objectifying themselves - we as men are just affirming their objectification that they have placed upon themselves.

It is attention of lust that these modern hors want and it is the attention of lust that we give them - they are not worth anything more than this!!! They make themselves into sexual objects and thus must deal with the sexual lust that is derived from their OWN objectification!!!
 
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If you don't treat woman like objects, you end up treating objects like woman.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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