stop threating women like objects???

[gruby]

....i was told today by a femal friend of mine... A what?

 

[alphawolfx]

tell her stop telling you what to do with your life...

that you do whatever makes you happy

and live the rest of your life that way

 

[gruby]

yeah, but... Today one girl tells me that. Yesterday 2 other girls tell me that i "have no respect for women." It's becoming a pattern and i don't know wheather it's good or not.

 

[johnny_chase]

well, girls do like to be looked in the eye every so often. Do you grab their ass instead of shaking their hand? Do you eat your breakfast off their tits? Do you rest your beer on the top of their head while they, errr, service you?

You have to elaborate here

 

[rgeere]

You have to give respect to receive respect

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Originally posted by gruby
..Yesterday 2 other girls tell me that i "have no respect for women." It's becoming a pattern and i don't know wheather it's good or not.

Considering the masculine nature of women today - hearing this is a GOOD thing, "IF you are asserting yourself as a man and treating them like a woman!!! However, if you are unbearable because you are a rude and a disrespectful person then they are correct in their assessment!!!

 

[gruby]

I suppose i ramble too much about other pretty girls...

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by gruby
I suppose i ramble too much about other pretty girls...

Actually, that's more than just disrespectful, it is a rude turn-off especially when you do that in their presence.

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

Originally posted by johnny_chase
well, girls do like to be looked in the eye every so often. Do you grab their ass instead of shaking their hand? Do you eat your breakfast off their tits? Do you rest your beer on the top of their head while they, errr, service you?

If that is the case, you are my new hero gruby!

It is an accepted fact that women are attracted to jerks and they get all the hot chicks. I think you might be going around the wrong way in acting like a jerk. It doesn't mean that you call every girl you see a b|tch. Acting like a jerk means that you nolonger let yourself be pu-ssywhipped by girls
1. you act disinterested with the hot ones (they expect you to treat them like queens because of their looks), you should act disinterested with all girls! when they know you are interested you become their puppet.
2. you assert yourself as a MAN when you talk to a female, no more soft spoken sissy voice, among other things. I always used to talk to girls differently, trying to sound nice and educated, now I talk to them like I talk to anyone else. When you talk to them this way they know you are basically being this way because they're girls. When you nolonger talk to them as if they were queens, then you assert yourself as a man with them and this intrigues them.

use the search function in this forum or search the dj Bible for articles on how to be a jerk.

 

[rgeere]

Hmmm, you can get girls without being a jerk ... Most of the girls who are attracted to the typical jerk sterotype are flaky and shallow anyways ....

So, in other words .. Yeah, the girls would be great fvck material, but just like the jerk a good relationship would be lacking ... In my experience relationship sex is far more fulfilling than that ...

 

[Skweints]

Originally posted by rgeere
Actually, that's more than just disrespectful, it is a rude turn-off especially when you do that in their presence.

What, he's not doing anything wrong? He's sparking that well-known feeling of JEALOUSY! Why else would they get pissed of?

Johnny! Do ya compliment them afterwards? Let her know you still think she's hot, too? This usually puts them into lala land.

 

[diablo]

Originally posted by gruby
I suppose i ramble too much about other pretty girls...

This is fine, if you don't ever plan on trying to sleep with the girls to whom you're rambling.

 

[DeathDealer]

That's funny cause there are some women out there that mirror that object of affection. They put on tons of makeup, dress sexually, and act like a h0 around everyone. Seems to me those kind of women are at fault for promoting this female sexual object.

 

[SpeedRunner]

I get b!tched at all the time for treating girls like objects

hell yeah i kiss and make out on the first date. that doesnt mean i actually want a relationship with her, or any kind of emotional attachment. so what??

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by Skweints
What, he's not doing anything wrong? He's sparking that well-known feeling of JEALOUSY! Why else would they get pissed of?

If it is sincere and they know it without you EMPHASIZING, then yes ...

On the other hand if you just start talking about the other girls you are seeing out of the blue, that would not make them jealous it would turn them off.

 

[Ice Cold]

Originally posted by rgeere
You have to give respect to receive respect

Where did you hear that?

 

[rgeere]

Originally posted by Ice Cold
Where did you hear that?

Experience told me ... You reap what you sow, it's a natural law ...

 

[Scrumtulescence]

Originally posted by Ice Cold
Where did you hear that?

Life, probably. No one respects someone who is disrespectful. Fear, perhaps, but don't confuse that with genuine respect. And from the tone of your post, don't confuse respectfulness with supplication, ass-kissing and niceness.

 

[00Kevin]

When women tell you not to treat women like objects and call you a womanizer. Pat yourself on the back! You are the man!

Welcome to the club.

 

[rgeere]

I don't know what it is with some guys, but it is like they have this fascination almost infatuation with being an Alphamale and think they should get away with sh:tting over everyone. The life of an Alphamale isn't as grand as you would think with so many other Alphas around beating each other over the head while the betas are getting along with themselves and the women. Plus, what they don't realize is that Alphamales, while they seem to be ahead, take too many risk and eventually fall behind and get bypassed by the betas anyhow and even eventually becomes one of them if one lives long enough.