"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Be at lunch on a busy day. All of your friends are there for a table for 3 or family restaurant( If you can still find them) Alway set up a form of payment so the service industry doesn't make mcdonals your enemy. Adapt and if you are on a date. You are calling it a date but your friends see the twenty dollar tip. You win in marriage because the next generation see's you are not the typical attorney. Being the companys employee doesn't take you to the life insurance plan no one can get. Free drink, parking, etc

p.s.- Another morning

p.s.- Work week ahead...

-Vantagepoint
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Be me, hate tipping. On a date, go to McDonalds, order from dollar menu. Ask for treat of the week. Dinner and an action date. Problem Solved.
 

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Uhh...I have no idea what you are even trying to say because this reads like a bunch of gibberish someone put thru a translator that doesn't make any sense nor form proper sentences .

Understandable if English isn't your first language...if it is...geesh...you have a lot bigger issues than women to worry about. Like going back in time and getting a grade school education.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Uhh...I have no idea what you are even trying to say because this reads like a bunch of gibberish someone put thru a translator that doesn't make any sense nor form proper sentences .

Understandable if English isn't your first language...if it is...geesh...you have a lot bigger issues than women to worry about. Like going back in time and getting a grade school education.
Its the format of a meme on 4chan.
 

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Be at lunch on a busy day. All of your friends are there for a table for 3 or family restaurant( If you can still find them) Alway set up a form of payment so the service industry doesn't make mcdonals your enemy. Adapt and if you are on a date. You are calling it a date but your friends see the twenty dollar tip. You win in marriage because the next generation see's you are not the typical attorney. Being the companys employee doesn't take you to the life insurance plan no one can get. Free drink, parking, etc

p.s.- Another morning

p.s.- Work week ahead...

-Vantagepoint
You gave a $20 tip for a hamburger at McDonalds to try to get the cashier's phone number and your friends thought you were crazy? Did she give you her number?
 

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You gave a $20 tip for a hamburger at McDonalds to try to get the cashier's phone number and your friends thought you were crazy? Did she give you her number?
Well My french is not so great. Yea was just showing how you could be paying at a restaurant. From you would look at it as forty dollar tip. Canada usually expensive when you can travel. You could get a girls phone number in Florida. Date is like '98 Hooters (deerfield beach) I'm sure free drinks and save you the journey. Like if you could find a cashier like that in a starbucks. Yea most breakfast or where you would get breakfast does not accept apple pay, cards, etc. Funny if you "date" and try to keep a day Employmentt
 

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Can I suggest you compose your messages here in your native language and either use macOS’s built in translate function to translate it to English or google Translate and paste the result into the forum? It is very hard follow your meaning the way you’re posting now.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Did you someone forget how to spell? Can you fix the title of the thread to be valid English?
 

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Well My french is not so great. Yea was just showing how you could be paying at a restaurant. From you would look at it as forty dollar tip. Canada usually expensive when you can travel. You could get a girls phone number in Florida. Date is like '98 Hooters (deerfield beach) I'm sure free drinks and save you the journey. Like if you could find a cashier like that in a starbucks. Yea most breakfast or where you would get breakfast does not accept apple pay, cards, etc. Funny if you "date" and try to keep a day Employmentt
So you are saying this would also work in Toronto?
 

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They should have an address there as marseille. How that would sound Here in Toronto Marseille. " here in toronto Montpellier" Mayor of monpellier, Modspeth highschool. Haha.
 

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I am sure there is some creative style to this thread, much like a arthouse film or exotic art of sorts. I am baffled. What type of art thread is this? It is a new thing.
 

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What's there to bump? Nobody can understand what you are even talking about so how could they respond with anything coherent to an incoherent post?
I can. Just went through an indian mediator giving me legal advice. Later on her recomemmend a didstant family should have a farewell party. Since person did clinically had a stroke and now see's a date for a farewell party..
 

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Be at lunch on a busy day. All of your friends are there for a table for 3 or family restaurant( If you can still find them) Alway set up a form of payment so the service industry doesn't make mcdonals your enemy. Adapt and if you are on a date. You are calling it a date but your friends see the twenty dollar tip. You win in marriage because the next generation see's you are not the typical attorney. Being the companys employee doesn't take you to the life insurance plan no one can get. Free drink, parking, etc

p.s.- Another morning

p.s.- Work week ahead...

-Vantagepoint
 
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