"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Stop Being Timid!
- Thread starter frivolousz21
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ONS suck IMO because I have to use condoms which take away too much off the pleasure and they all sit way to tight on me. Also you can never have an advanced form off sex with them so it's pretty boring sex too.
Don_Joffe
Senior Don Juan
1 thing though if you are a trophy you are being trophied around to show around and she is showing you off therefore she is a player.
Your goal is to become the PRIZE rather.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
Im not trying to push my ideals onto anyone..Im just pointing out the best way to get the job done...I am telling you how much this works...
I believe the sosuave ideal is nearly perfect...but that is just me. Showing a girl that you can and will be the best guy to bend her over the couch will get her everytime...showing and telling are differnt things. I realize that we all want to be with someone smart, funny, intellectual and ATTRACTIVE..you can still get that girl and get her clothes off as fast as the ones who just want sex with you.
thats what im saying..the more she wants to get on her knees and suck ur ****..the better chance for you to get her heart as well...its true..the basic princibles of men and women are SEX and balance..left and right brains.
I wish everyone in here the best this yr!
as for my goals..just to keep my sex life good.and meet someone I can share this life with
but if that doesnt happen...some good ole hot sex will do!im only 22.
this whole thing holds only a little bit of weight on me, because my last serious relationship which ended because of distance needless to sayOriginally posted by frivolousz21
Im not a PIMP..even tho I could be...then again everyone on this forum on some level has that ability...wether they use it or not.
Im not trying to push my ideals onto anyone..Im just pointing out the best way to get the job done...I am telling you how much this works...
I believe the sosuave ideal is nearly perfect...but that is just me. Showing a girl that you can and will be the best guy to bend her over the couch will get her everytime...showing and telling are differnt things. I realize that we all want to be with someone smart, funny, intellectual and ATTRACTIVE..you can still get that girl and get her clothes off as fast as the ones who just want sex with you.
thats what im saying..the more she wants to get on her knees and suck ur ****..the better chance for you to get her heart as well...its true..the basic princibles of men and women are SEX and balance..left and right brains.
I wish everyone in here the best this yr!
as for my goals..just to keep my sex life good.and meet someone I can share this life with
im only 22.
my last serious relationship which was seriously one of the best ones i've had sexually she wanted me in every possible way in fact she even said.. your like the ONLY guy i've ever WANTED to give head to.
with that said i can see your point about the whole sexual side of things but i still don't belive in just scoreing with every girl i find attractive.
I wonder how many DJs who have successful relationships because most off us is way to demanding and cold. So, don't go blindly after the rules.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
On the money bro. So what if a couple of them are 'taken aback' by your boldness. This helps you weed out lukewarm interest.