stood up (sort of)

[phillyb]

hi all, well just broke up with g/f...the last few weeks I have

been talking to this little hottie on the internet. She is 20, and I'm 28.
I asked her if she

would like to meet up for coffee sometime. at first she said, well i

dont know...i dont usually do that sort of thing with random guys

on the net. I said well, that's cool i dont blame ya, and changed

the subject. The next day she said that she changed her mind

and wanted to meet up. One week later i suggested we meet up

on a wed. (giving her 2 days notice)...she agrees etc etc. . So she

give me her number and says to call her that night. I do and she

sounds all rushed and stuff....we decide to meet somewhere, and

just as i'm on my way out the door she calls and asks if we can

do itsome other time. SURE NO PROB i say. Next day she calls and

says she is going to bed and can we meet up tommorow (sat). I

say thats cool........Question.....should i call her or let her call

me.....i dont want her to get the wrong idea of me you know, that

i put up with broken dates right off the bat.......


thoughts questions concerns

 

[pancakepalace]

hi

I think you should definitely let her call you. If you call you'll never know how she really feels and it makes you look too eager.

Let her call you, and when she does, tell her you have a pretty packed day but a few hours at a given time. This will make you look like you are busy and plus you won't have to worry how long the date should last.

Nothing worst than a first date that seems to last too long a time.

ciao,
pel

 

[flexion_]

I'd back off and let her come to you at this point. She seems to have low interest level.