Stood Up on 2nd Date

[nismo-4]

Not obvious.

I would probably miss my date with Kate Upton if I was bleeding internally.

You would also reschedule, I'm sure.

It did not happen here, proving my point even further.

 

[playa99]

I agree with Nismo.

Interested women do not flake... if there is a genuine reason she could not make the date she would have let you know and rescheduled.. which she did not and that is the end of the matter in my eyes.

 

[monterreymoosey5678]

I would respond with assertiveness:

I feel disappointed that we did not see each other tonight. I thought everything had been arranged for us to meet. I wanted to have fun, but i guess other things came up.

Went with the above approach. I figure it puts it on her to absolutely commit one way or the other. Basically my way of saying, "I'm walking away, so either don't respond, or fight to earn my time and respect." There's a nice closure in it.

I appreciate everyone's input, and I understand the ramifications of sending that text. But if she was a flake, it won't matter anyways.

Will follow up with results

 

[sylvester the cat]

Went with the above approach. I figure it puts it on her to absolutely commit one way or the other. Basically my way of saying, "I'm walking away, so either don't respond, or fight to earn my time and respect." There's a nice closure in it.

I appreciate everyone's input, and I understand the ramifications of sending that text. But if she was a flake, it won't matter anyways.

Will follow up with results

although that doesn't say 'I'm walking away'. That says, 'I'm still here. Thinking about you'.

Radio silence says 'I'm walking away'.

 

[monterreymoosey5678]

although that doesn't say 'I'm walking away'. That says, 'I'm still here. Thinking about you'.

Radio silence says 'I'm walking away'.

**** good point.

Late edit: No response. Probably a lost cause, as many posters stated.

 

[Greasy Pig]

Ball was definitely in her court, OP. She didn't deserve a response.
You need to spin more plates and cultivate an abundance mentality so that when you're next confronted by flakey bishes, you'll just be able to shrug it off.

I would only respond to her if she tells you she lapsed into a coma for four days. But even then, my sceptical brain would probably still ignore her.
Move onward and upward! And hopefully inward. But with women who greatly appreciate your time and effort.