Stood up by girl last night and I'm getting burnt out

[sangheilios]

Last evening I was supposed to meet up with a girl I met at lowe's for drinks, I had actually posted a thread on here about her. Anyway, we had planned to meet at a specific time and place but right before I was about to leave she cancelled, with no attempt to reschedule. It was really disappointing but also frustrating because we had made plans earlier that day. Prior to that she had been texting me a lot and quickly agreed to plans so I don't really know what happened.

The Spanish milf I went out with 3 times ghosted and is long gone, so that's out, and I'm just getting super burnt out with all this and it feels like I'm at the point where my mental health is kind of suffering. I'm always pretty relaxed in day to day life but lately I've been getting stressed and annoyed by stuff that would never phase me at all. I'm also starting to see it with my posts on here.

I don't know if I need to take a break or if I should just keep trying.

 

[Serenity]

I don't know if I need to take a break or if I should just keep trying.

Listen to your senses. If you feel like powering on will burn you out then you're probably right. The most important thing you can do is to do what makes you feel good and gives you energy. At one point doing what you do now may have given you energy and it may do so again in the future, but right now you're not feeling it so it's not right at the moment.

 

[jsim]

Flakes and ghosting are normal. Deal with it. No one bats a thousand.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Flakes and ghosting are normal. Deal with it. No one bats a thousand.

x infinite!

Life's too ****ing boring not to try.

Lose said girl's #. ***** is dead to you. If hit by a 16 wheeler, zero ****s given.

Too busy getting hotter YOUNGER girls.

Op, life trolls women harder then you or I ever could.

Step game up. Get paper right. Hit the gym.

The best revenge is living a great life.

I recall loosely texting a club skank almost a decade ago. She flaked. I was watching the fights with the boys. Its a booty call fallback.

I ended up running into her after picking up barely legal newly 18 top form smv. Years later, I flake on club skank and run into her downtown with barely legal newly 18.

There's nothing more sweeter then seeing fat as ****kkk slobs present day and you are crushing it in life.

Sit back with that smug look on your face when GOAT STATUS.

 

[Mazer]

It can be discouraging at times but just
keep going. It still is a numbers game. It took me almost a full year to get a rotation of four steady plates. I’m currently in a relationship but I had to date many women, close to fifty to find a woman who treats me like a king. Also, have low expectations when it comes to women.
You only need to find 1-2 steady plates and while you are banging those out try to add 1-2 more.

 

[backseatjuan]

@sangheilios it’s your lack of escalation. Escalation is sexual connection, you had none.

 

[GrowingPains]

x infinite!

Life's too ****ing boring not to try.

Lose said girl's #. ***** is dead to you. If hit by a 16 wheeler, zero ****s given.

Too busy getting hotter YOUNGER girls.

Op, life trolls women harder then you or I ever could.

Step game up. Get paper right. Hit the gym.

The best revenge is living a great life.

I recall loosely texting a club skank almost a decade ago. She flaked. I was watching the fights with the boys. Its a booty call fallback.

I ended up running into her after picking up barely legal newly 18 top form smv. Years later, I flake on club skank and run into her downtown with barely legal newly 18.

There's nothing more sweeter then seeing fat as ****kkk slobs present day and you are crushing it in life.

Sit back with that smug look on your face when GOAT STATUS.

Thank you Based God.

 

[zekko]

It can be discouraging at times but just keep going.

Just keep swimming, just keep swimming....

 

[MillionBillionaire]

Bro I was soo burnt out I hid in my man cave and played videogames for almost a whole year. When I realized that I was better with women than the Bronze rank I was stuck in, I decided to go out again.

Best decision ever.

Take a break and head back out... take the time out now so you can be ready for late spring, summer.

 

[sosousage]

Bro I was soo burnt out I hid in my man cave and played videogames for almost a whole year. When I realized that I was better with women than the Bronze rank I was stuck in, I decided to go out again.

Best decision ever.

Take a break and head back out... take the time out now so you can be ready for late spring, summer.

lmao. i had master rank. you should quit not because of women but because moba are fundamentally broken games where u lose when u get nubs in team. why lose points for someone else fault? change game br0

Last evening I was supposed to meet up with a girl I met at lowe's for drinks, I had actually posted a thread on here about her. Anyway, we had planned to meet at a specific time and place but right before I was about to leave she cancelled, with no attempt to reschedule. It was really disappointing but also frustrating because we had made plans earlier that day. Prior to that she had been texting me a lot and quickly agreed to plans so I don't really know what happened.

The Spanish milf I went out with 3 times ghosted and is long gone, so that's out, and I'm just getting super burnt out with all this and it feels like I'm at the point where my mental health is kind of suffering. I'm always pretty relaxed in day to day life but lately I've been getting stressed and annoyed by stuff that would never phase me at all. I'm also starting to see it with my posts on here.

I don't know if I need to take a break or if I should just keep trying.

ah yeah had a lot of it when i was dating... id just give up

 

[marmel75]

Last evening I was supposed to meet up with a girl I met at lowe's for drinks, I had actually posted a thread on here about her. Anyway, we had planned to meet at a specific time and place but right before I was about to leave she cancelled, with no attempt to reschedule. It was really disappointing but also frustrating because we had made plans earlier that day. Prior to that she had been texting me a lot and quickly agreed to plans so I don't really know what happened.

The Spanish milf I went out with 3 times ghosted and is long gone, so that's out, and I'm just getting super burnt out with all this and it feels like I'm at the point where my mental health is kind of suffering. I'm always pretty relaxed in day to day life but lately I've been getting stressed and annoyed by stuff that would never phase me at all. I'm also starting to see it with my posts on here.

I don't know if I need to take a break or if I should just keep trying.

Dont worry. Remember, you are doing everything right and its every single woman that you communicate with's fault. You are blameless.

 

[sosousage]

Dont worry. Remember, you are doing everything right and its every single woman that you communicate with's fault. You are blameless.

it is their fault for giving false hopes, wasting time and scheduling dates that they will cancel in last minute

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Flakes and ghosting are normal. Deal with it. No one bats a thousand.

x infinite!

Life's too ****ing boring not to try.

Lose said girl's #. ***** is dead to you. If hit by a 16 wheeler, zero ****s given.

Too busy getting hotter YOUNGER girls.

Op, life trolls women harder then you or I ever could.

Step game up. Get paper right. Hit the gym.

The best revenge is living a great life.

I recall loosely texting a club skank almost a decade ago. She flaked. I was watching the fights with the boys. Its a booty call fallback.

I ended up running into her after picking up barely legal newly 18 top form smv. Years later, I flake on club skank and run into her downtown with barely legal newly 18.

There's nothing more sweeter then seeing fat as ****kkk slobs present day and you are crushing it in life.

Sit back with that smug look on your face when GOAT STATUS.

It can be discouraging at times but just
keep going. It still is a numbers game. It took me almost a full year to get a rotation of four steady plates. I’m currently in a relationship but I had to date many women, close to fifty to find a woman who treats me like a king. Also, have low expectations when it comes to women.
You only need to find 1-2 steady plates and while you are banging those out try to add 1-2 more.

After a handful in rotation, it gets sloppy.

Women aren't exactly free thinkers. Nobody that subecribes to victimhood is. With that said, the stories blend together. Its like a day job. Its redundant. Not complaining. Just saying. Women come around and drop off. Its why spinning plates is key.

Its funny. Guys want a silver/magic bullet proof formula. Its minimize the expanded energy. Its evolutionary. As is women adapting to the times. Body positivity. Women get fat as ****kkk.promo for Sloot gonna Sloot. Ian Flemming wrote 007 series. In from Russia with Love, the one and only woman who doesn't **** Bond had a bf and is ashamed of her kill count (3). Today, they got pork star kill count, entitled as ****kkk, and getting fatter by the minute.

 

[Glassguy]

Last evening I was supposed to meet up with a girl I met at lowe's for drinks, I had actually posted a thread on here about her. Anyway, we had planned to meet at a specific time and place but right before I was about to leave she cancelled, with no attempt to reschedule. It was really disappointing but also frustrating because we had made plans earlier that day. Prior to that she had been texting me a lot and quickly agreed to plans so I don't really know what happened.

The Spanish milf I went out with 3 times ghosted and is long gone, so that's out, and I'm just getting super burnt out with all this and it feels like I'm at the point where my mental health is kind of suffering. I'm always pretty relaxed in day to day life but lately I've been getting stressed and annoyed by stuff that would never phase me at all. I'm also starting to see it with my posts on here.

I don't know if I need to take a break or if I should just keep trying.

You need to read the thread topic I just posted on this. Women are women. There is no reason to let a woman's natural actions in today's day and age get to you and let you be jaded.

It is what it is. The sooner you realize this, the better you will be with women.

 

[Robert28]

Flakes and ghosting are normal. Deal with it. No one bats a thousand.

They aren’t normal. To me that’s odd behavior when women act like that. The older you get the more bs you have to put up with when it comes to women and dating.

 

[Spaz]

When I used to go out every weekend to seduce women with my wings, we never viewed women as adults who could make their own decisions. This sounds misogynistic but once youved figured women out, you blame them less.

For example, if I lost a girl to a wing, it's not her fault, it's my wings fault for showing up. Women are unloyal and they always follow the shiny new thing. So that is a given. I can't blame them for being them. But I can blame my wing for being stupid to think two guys talking to one girl is a good idea.

And if she flakes it means I failed to escalate on the spot. I was too soft.

I took 100% responsibility. And this catapulted my game. It gave me a sense of control. Obviously I can't control the outcome. But I can always tell myself that there was room for improvement.

This attitude put me in a solution based mindset rather than a problem based mindset. Yeah okay women are machines and childlike and irresponsible and unloyal. What is the solution?

The solution is he who approaches is given first dibs and left alone. And when a window opens, one must sexually escalate instead of playing it safe.

By taking responsibility, you gain power. And by thinking of solutions (even if you think she is retarded) you become creative and innovative.

After awhile I came up with the art of fingering women within 5 minutes. This reality would not have been possible if I didn't take full responsibility and come from a solution based mindset. I would have never known it was possible.

When you become creative and innovative, your seductions will start to look weird. There will be no rhyme or reason. Like making out with a woman within 5 seconds. Or sleeping with a woman who already rejected you 5 times. Or sleeping with a lesbian. Or sleeping with a woman who thought you were someone else. This all happened to me. Each situation I thought to myself "what is the solution?"

The possibilities in seduction are endless. And no two seductions are exactly the same. It's an art that requires creativity and not logic.

It's too bad that very few will understand this concept.

Some might even equate taking responsibility as man shaming.

 

[sangheilios]

They aren’t normal. To me that’s odd behavior when women act like that. The older you get the more bs you have to put up with when it comes to women and dating.

It's normal in the sense that it's typical and expected.

Bro I was soo burnt out I hid in my man cave and played videogames for almost a whole year. When I realized that I was better with women than the Bronze rank I was stuck in, I decided to go out again.

Best decision ever.

Take a break and head back out... take the time out now so you can be ready for late spring, summer.

I'm finishing up my classes in the next couple weeks and my degree, I already have solid As in them so it isn't like I'm going through the grinder right now. I made $500 last weekend and $400 this weekend, I'm trying to bag up a lot of money over the next 12ish months to save up for physical therapy school next year and also continue to put more money into crypto/investments. I still workout/train so when the semester ends I'm going to up that a bit more so I'm overall going to be doing solid things with myself and not just rotting at home.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

It's normal in the sense that it's typical and expected.


I'm finishing up my classes in the next couple weeks and my degree, I already have solid As in them so it isn't like I'm going through the grinder right now. I made $500 last weekend and $400 this weekend, I'm trying to bag up a lot of money over the next 12ish months to save up for physical therapy school next year and also continue to put more money into crypto/investments. I still workout/train so when the semester ends I'm going to up that a bit more so I'm overall going to be doing solid things with myself and not just rotting at home.

I suspect your attitude around these women is very competitive and intense. It makes them close up and compete. That "lover of all women" archeotype i described will fvck almost anything. Has a silver tongue devil side thats very charming and opens women up. You can always upgrade ypur rotation as you get steady action. That side of you is not being fed.

 

[BJP1991]

Stay on your purpose, and don’t let women’s acceptance of you dictate your life.

This is something I’ve struggled with before, and it never gets easier, but what helps is focusing on yourself and improving yourself overtime.

If you’re feeling burned out, take a week or two completely off of women. Sure, still meet them out and about, but don’t put any thought into making dates or even the girls you’ve seen recently. A little time off to reflect and focus on your job/personal interests/working out can help a lot.

Live a social life of abundance (see your friends as priority over women) and stay on your purpose.

 

[marmel75]

You need to read the thread topic I just posted on this. Women are women. There is no reason to let a woman's natural actions in today's day and age get to you and let you be jaded.

It is what it is. The sooner you realize this, the better you will be with women.

No offense but when this happens with every single women you interact with is say the problem isnt with them. Just my opinion.

@Glassguy, Would you continue to see the women as the issue if this happened to you with every woman you interacted with?