"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Stomach muscles cramp after ab/crunch exercises....

FM 3321

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I recently started working on my stomach muscles three weeks ago and have noticed after each session my stomach muscles cramp up. Although it's pretty uncomfortable it's not severe cramping. I'm not sure if it has to do with my water intake or frequency of exercising but I would like to eliminate cramping after doing abdominal and oblique crunches. If you've experienced the same thing what's the best way to eliminate cramping? I do stomach muscle exercises one a week and after doing some reading on bodybuilding.com I'd like to increase the frequency of these sessions. I have a feeling my muscles are weak and probably need to become stronger in order to keep from cramping up.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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and/or you need more water and potassium. sit down with a big glass of water and a banana.
 

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I'll try more water and banana and see how that works out. Thanks for that tip. Maybe that's why I always see banana peels in the parking lot as I walk towards the gym entrance. :)
 

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Just to update this thread the banana about an hour or two before the workout did the trick. I did some heavy ab exercises and no cramps at all. Thanks again (JJ)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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