This guy stole a girl I was in a 4 month relationship with. I admit I was majorly turning AFC and it was just a matter of time anyways.
Well, I came back to sosuave after that, it's amazing how much I had started slowly forgetting as I was becoming complacent.
Long story short, not only do I get the girl back within a month, but I get her to cheat on him with me first instead of just leaving him for me.
I thought looking into his eyes knowing I'd had sex with the girl he thought was his might repair the wound I'd been dealt, it didn't. Yesterday she broke it off with him and I remember the look on his face when she walked up and was talking to me in the halls. When it all came together for him and he realized why he'd just been dumped. The anger and pain in his eyes, I soaked up every bit of it, but I didn't feel any better.
In fact I felt pretty bad for him. This guy is really pathetic, if he wasn't such a total AFC I doubt I would have been able to steal her back so easily. He'd never even gotten past first base with this girl when I'd nearly had sex with her on the second date. (and she was a virgin then too, I know she wasn't lying because when we did do it there was blood and she didn't get her monthly visit until the next week)
For every guy out there, wounded egos aren't healed by revenge, and now that I've won the girl back I almost don't want her anymore.
If I'd learned to let go of my ego and oneitis I would probably already be in a relationship with a new girl by now and I wouldn't have spent so long with all this anger and revenge crap.
Well, I came back to sosuave after that, it's amazing how much I had started slowly forgetting as I was becoming complacent.
Long story short, not only do I get the girl back within a month, but I get her to cheat on him with me first instead of just leaving him for me.
I thought looking into his eyes knowing I'd had sex with the girl he thought was his might repair the wound I'd been dealt, it didn't. Yesterday she broke it off with him and I remember the look on his face when she walked up and was talking to me in the halls. When it all came together for him and he realized why he'd just been dumped. The anger and pain in his eyes, I soaked up every bit of it, but I didn't feel any better.
In fact I felt pretty bad for him. This guy is really pathetic, if he wasn't such a total AFC I doubt I would have been able to steal her back so easily. He'd never even gotten past first base with this girl when I'd nearly had sex with her on the second date. (and she was a virgin then too, I know she wasn't lying because when we did do it there was blood and she didn't get her monthly visit until the next week)
For every guy out there, wounded egos aren't healed by revenge, and now that I've won the girl back I almost don't want her anymore.
If I'd learned to let go of my ego and oneitis I would probably already be in a relationship with a new girl by now and I wouldn't have spent so long with all this anger and revenge crap.
