Stimulating Conversation

[HolyG]

I'll get right to the point. So I'm in college right, and last night I was out partying. I opened lots of different girls, but sometimes things feel real akward. I introduce myself and ask about what school they're in. Sometimes I'll be at a loss from there, however. I realize that girls prefer talking about emotional stuff to logical stuff.

Any tips?

 

[tr0ublemaker]

17 in college? jesus christ i graduated HS when i was 18

anyway, ask about her major and career aspirations, and then build from that

 

[Jay Jay]

Every guy asks about what school they are in. Boring!

Act like you have already met and go straight in with fun conversation.

Yes, chicks like emotional stuff... but stay away from negative emotions or at least have at least a 75% fun, exciting, sexual to 25% provocative balance.

JJ

 

[WC2]

:rockon:

Every guy asks about what school they are in. Boring!

Act like you have already met and go straight in with fun conversation.

Yes, chicks like emotional stuff... but stay away from negative emotions or at least have at least a 75% fun, exciting, sexual to 25% provocative balance.

JJ

Good reply.. to add

1. Keep it 100% positive. No girl wants a negative guy who's negative about his life.

2. Keep it original. You're going to need something better than "What's your major" to open up a conversation.

3. Make her laugh as much as possible, without being a comedian.

4. Vibe on her level.. take what she has to say and run with it.

5. Don't control the whole conversation, control where it goes. Women hate to control the direction of a conversation (this is where awkwardness comes from), that's a man's job. But, it's a little complicated - Women love to hear themselves talk! Bring up the new topics, let her talk, respond with original material till the topic gets old, then move it on to the next topic.

 

[HolyG]

Heh, yup I'm 17. A freshman though.

Thanks for the replies-

HolyG