All of us here have one thing in common... and that is for some reason or another (chances are because of our upbringing, but this is irrelevant), we didn't develop social skills at a normal rate, for some of us (me included) we didnt develop them at all.
BUT, out of failure comes oppurtunity.
Think about the best ladies man you know. Now imagine being 20 TIMES more succesfull with chicks then him.... well i'm here to tell you that it is possible. I've experienced it myself. I have posted alot on here in the past, and i have seen some awesome transformations on this board. I've seen complete AFC's turn in to the ladies man of the school, i've heard of guys have their gf's cheat on them and then go on to date hotter girls only to have their ex come crawling back, and it is these kind of stories that make it all worth it.
What's even better is that it then transfers in to other facets of their life. You see it all the time, it starts out as a quest for ***** and ends up as a quest for life. Its a conduit to self improvement.
Problem is, i dont see enough of it. I would like to see a higher turnover % of AFC's to DJ's. Fact is, alot of you wont make it to become that ladies man you want, you will go back to a life of ignorance. Some of you will however, and i would love to here your successes. If you wanna talk to me in person - shoot me a pm, inspirational stories is what i want to hear.
So what is it that seperates the guys who go through with it from the keyboard jockeys?
From my experiences there are two main ones. 1. work ethic. 2. frame of mind.
Sure you can overcomplicate it with other factors but if you focus on those two areas and let the chips fall where they may - you will be amazed with yourself.
lets go in to more detail.
1. Work ethic.
There are ALOT of guys on here who have been on the site for years but still havent been laid? Why is this? All the information on here is field tested and worked we KNOW it works, but why can't they get their end wet?
To get good at seduction it requires alot of effort. You need to get blown out of the water time and time again. You need to **** up, the more you **** up the better you get. To many guys just wait for that 'perfect time' to approach, if only they knew that the perfect time was 30 minutes ago. The perfect time is as soon as you see her. Here's something important to remember, this applies to everything - not just girls:
By Waiting ...... YOU MISS OUT!!
Even if a girl is attracted to you she wont show it, she will do her best to conceal it (save the sluts) as she doesnt want to be labelled a slut. The ones that SHOW interest are what we like to call **** teases and ussually end you up in a state of false hope.
Your sitting now reading this.... because its easy. Most people can read. Its not difficult, it doesnt take you out of your comfort zone, you just sit there.. alone in the computer room. Everyone always says knowledge is power, but if that where case then libraries would be the nuclear power plants of the world. Knowledge put in to action is real power!
At the end of the day, when things get hard thats when most people start to make up exscuses! Its a universal law you get out what you put in... you reap what you sew.... whatever, These things apply and you have to understand them.
Can you all just do yourself a favour and stop restricting yourself. Theres noone stopping you except for you! you and your negative beliefs.. which brings me to:
2. Your frame of mind.
I made a post ago about attraction via assumption. Basically it says if you assume she is in to you - she will start to act that way. The more you do this, the better you get at it.. and the more pink stink you get. Simple. ASSUME SHE IS INTERESTED. I don't care if she says that if you ever talk to her again she will kill you family - just take it as 'shes playing hard to get'.
Chicks HATE these guys, but the funny things is - they only **** these guys. ASSUME SHES INTERESTED, When you go out ASSUME your gonna get laid ASSUME every girl is in to you.
Has anyone ever heard of the law of attraction? Basically it states that what you think in your mind will manifest here in reality. Your thoughts have electric pulses and release in to the universe.
If you stress about not having a gf you will continue not to have one until you 'get lucky'.
Have you noticed that when you get one girl you ussually seem to get 2 or 3 more then when you lose them you will go on a drought. Thats because you think you can get girls so you do. Its not a coincedence.
When you waste your energy worrying you just bring more and more of those circumstances in to your life. When you focus on the future you, you bring THAT in to your life. Start thinking about what your thinking and figure out where those thoughts are taking you.
I'm not the best writer, as alot of the guys who have been here a while would know - but if this inspires just one person to get off their ass and work at their problems then im happy.
BUT, out of failure comes oppurtunity.
Think about the best ladies man you know. Now imagine being 20 TIMES more succesfull with chicks then him.... well i'm here to tell you that it is possible. I've experienced it myself. I have posted alot on here in the past, and i have seen some awesome transformations on this board. I've seen complete AFC's turn in to the ladies man of the school, i've heard of guys have their gf's cheat on them and then go on to date hotter girls only to have their ex come crawling back, and it is these kind of stories that make it all worth it.
What's even better is that it then transfers in to other facets of their life. You see it all the time, it starts out as a quest for ***** and ends up as a quest for life. Its a conduit to self improvement.
Problem is, i dont see enough of it. I would like to see a higher turnover % of AFC's to DJ's. Fact is, alot of you wont make it to become that ladies man you want, you will go back to a life of ignorance. Some of you will however, and i would love to here your successes. If you wanna talk to me in person - shoot me a pm, inspirational stories is what i want to hear.
So what is it that seperates the guys who go through with it from the keyboard jockeys?
From my experiences there are two main ones. 1. work ethic. 2. frame of mind.
Sure you can overcomplicate it with other factors but if you focus on those two areas and let the chips fall where they may - you will be amazed with yourself.
lets go in to more detail.
1. Work ethic.
There are ALOT of guys on here who have been on the site for years but still havent been laid? Why is this? All the information on here is field tested and worked we KNOW it works, but why can't they get their end wet?
To get good at seduction it requires alot of effort. You need to get blown out of the water time and time again. You need to **** up, the more you **** up the better you get. To many guys just wait for that 'perfect time' to approach, if only they knew that the perfect time was 30 minutes ago. The perfect time is as soon as you see her. Here's something important to remember, this applies to everything - not just girls:
By Waiting ...... YOU MISS OUT!!
Even if a girl is attracted to you she wont show it, she will do her best to conceal it (save the sluts) as she doesnt want to be labelled a slut. The ones that SHOW interest are what we like to call **** teases and ussually end you up in a state of false hope.
Your sitting now reading this.... because its easy. Most people can read. Its not difficult, it doesnt take you out of your comfort zone, you just sit there.. alone in the computer room. Everyone always says knowledge is power, but if that where case then libraries would be the nuclear power plants of the world. Knowledge put in to action is real power!
At the end of the day, when things get hard thats when most people start to make up exscuses! Its a universal law you get out what you put in... you reap what you sew.... whatever, These things apply and you have to understand them.
Can you all just do yourself a favour and stop restricting yourself. Theres noone stopping you except for you! you and your negative beliefs.. which brings me to:
2. Your frame of mind.
I made a post ago about attraction via assumption. Basically it says if you assume she is in to you - she will start to act that way. The more you do this, the better you get at it.. and the more pink stink you get. Simple. ASSUME SHE IS INTERESTED. I don't care if she says that if you ever talk to her again she will kill you family - just take it as 'shes playing hard to get'.
Chicks HATE these guys, but the funny things is - they only **** these guys. ASSUME SHES INTERESTED, When you go out ASSUME your gonna get laid ASSUME every girl is in to you.
Has anyone ever heard of the law of attraction? Basically it states that what you think in your mind will manifest here in reality. Your thoughts have electric pulses and release in to the universe.
If you stress about not having a gf you will continue not to have one until you 'get lucky'.
Have you noticed that when you get one girl you ussually seem to get 2 or 3 more then when you lose them you will go on a drought. Thats because you think you can get girls so you do. Its not a coincedence.
When you waste your energy worrying you just bring more and more of those circumstances in to your life. When you focus on the future you, you bring THAT in to your life. Start thinking about what your thinking and figure out where those thoughts are taking you.
I'm not the best writer, as alot of the guys who have been here a while would know - but if this inspires just one person to get off their ass and work at their problems then im happy.
