"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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emelec

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yeahh i know, i should next her but i have developed oneitis for this girl, despite dating other girls and having been in ohter relationships she pops into my life and we have a great connectio and we kissand what not. the first time it we kissed was months ago but i was too ***** to confront her man. now they broke up and we hanged out again and we kissed again.
yesterday she told me on aim she was thinking of me and it was mind bogglimg that she was? then today she told me if i fel weird kissing her and i told her yeah at first because i just came out of a relationship but then it was good. she said the same about her ex. nyways i told her i did want to talk about it online and told her to chill next week.

what a i plan on doing is take her on an action date to make her forget that were "suppose" to talk and hopefully shell stop wit the b.s. but if it does come up what should I say in order to not screw it up or at least what should i avoid saying?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You already know shes still "in love" with her ex, and you already know that you should next her.... SO GROW SOME BALLS AND DO IT. You're wasting your time my friend... even if you guys started something.. I guarentee you would get the line "I like you a lot, but its not gonna work out because I still have so many feelings for my ex". Seriously dude.. don't waste your time.
 
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