"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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still in love with her ex

emelec

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yeahh i know, i should next her but i have developed oneitis for this girl, despite dating other girls and having been in ohter relationships she pops into my life and we have a great connectio and we kissand what not. the first time it we kissed was months ago but i was too ***** to confront her man. now they broke up and we hanged out again and we kissed again.
yesterday she told me on aim she was thinking of me and it was mind bogglimg that she was? then today she told me if i fel weird kissing her and i told her yeah at first because i just came out of a relationship but then it was good. she said the same about her ex. nyways i told her i did want to talk about it online and told her to chill next week.

what a i plan on doing is take her on an action date to make her forget that were "suppose" to talk and hopefully shell stop wit the b.s. but if it does come up what should I say in order to not screw it up or at least what should i avoid saying?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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splinterkb

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You already know shes still "in love" with her ex, and you already know that you should next her.... SO GROW SOME BALLS AND DO IT. You're wasting your time my friend... even if you guys started something.. I guarentee you would get the line "I like you a lot, but its not gonna work out because I still have so many feelings for my ex". Seriously dude.. don't waste your time.
 
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