Still having troubles?

[VIVAlasVEGASBaby]

Having problems Don Juaning? Still isn’t quite all together? Look at your situation. Think about today. How could you have been a “better” Don Juan? There is a state that you can reach that will bring a smile to everyone’s face. When you have that radiating energy of happiness and friendliness, it becomes so easy. At the beginning it is difficult to hold on to and keep this state every day; your Don Juaning fluctuates, and therefore cannot get a girl attracted to you. See the problem?

My experience with this has been this;

I wanted the easy way out. I wanted people to be attracted to me, but I didn’t want to do any work. I just complained and moaned about it. Then one day I realized what I was doing. Don Juaning is difficult as first. It actually takes discipline and commitment. Reading posts countless weeks will not turn you into a Don Juan. They will definitely help you, but you and only you can achieve the state of Don Juan.

In Buddhism the key is achieving enlightenment. They say enlightenment is like a target. It is a target that the closer you get to hitting the bull’s-eye without hitting it dead on, the farther away you become from enlightenment. Think of it this way. You must hit that bulls-eye dead on otherwise you drift and drift without understanding why.

You have all the information you need. I would actually suggest to stop reading the bible and just remember that there is no easy way. You will not transform into a Don Juan while sitting in front of your computer. You must go the way you know you must, regardless of anything. You know the path, I don’t care how scary, painful, or long it is. Go for it. You know what you want, but more importantly, you know how to get it.

 

[VIVAlasVEGASBaby]

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[So pimp its scary]

"There is a state that you can reach that will bring a smile to everyone’s face. When you have that radiating energy of happiness and friendliness, it becomes so easy. At the beginning it is difficult to hold on to and keep this state every day; your Don Juaning fluctuates, and therefore cannot get a girl attracted to you."

I believe that DJ'ing as well as in any acquired skill, the process is not cumulative... as sweet as that would be. Rather, the process is closer to taking a few steps, then getting rocked back a step or two... then getting stuck at a new 'barrier', then after realizing that the barrier exists, you figure out a way to plow through that barrier; and in doing so, you find yourself at a new level of skill.

A concrete example of this would be working out : When you first start, the progress comes easy. Then, you get to a point where no matter what you do, it just isn't working out anymore. Problem : Lack of intensity. Once you see this barrier, and realize that adding intensity will probably help, you add sets... a week later, you realize that you can go up in weight and are that much stronger.

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Back to your post though... I really agree with most of what you had to say, and the parts that I disagree with are really too minor to even bother with.

"Action is the founding key to ALL success" - Tony Robbins

Those that do not act... AFC's; I am here to tell you that the first step is the hardest. After you get over that first hurdle, get rejected and step back up to the plate anyway, you have just got the ball rolling, and getting the ball rolling is all that you need.

 

[DanelMadr]

You are damn smart/wise man.
It has been a while. How are you doing?

 

[squirrels]

It's like a finger pointing at the moon.

We spend a lot of time on this forum focusing on the finger.