"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Still haven't figured girls out .. need advice

hitchcock1

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Well guys, thought I had it somewhat figured out but.... let me back up and tell the story.

Friend of mine set me up with a chick. .. said she was hot according to him and totally high class, so I said sure. I called her up, texted a couple times, then met up. We totally hit it off, had dinner for 3 hours, went to club, kissed there, and then I stayed over at her place. She was out of town the next week, so she said she would call me from there... she did but i wasn't around to get it. In any event, texting has become sporadic, calls even less. I thought for sure I'd get a second date but not sure anymore. 3 weeks later and I am really surprised after the quality of the first date that it didn't progress.

What's the deal!?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MisterMcGee

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Girls are male AFCs.

edit: what I meant to say was: Girls are the equivalent of a male AFC.
But yes, the word 'male' is unneeded in this case.
 
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