"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Okay so a girl (HB) that I am interested in, and haven't already advanced on, (which I will do anyway) who I am casual friends/acquatinces with. Anyway,

We kind of tease each other about other people we might like. She does this to me more then i do it to her though. Are my chances with this girl gone, becasue I have slipped slightly into the friend zone, or is this sort of teasing normal?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If she's doing this it's probably because she wants to hear you say her name.
 
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^He speaks the truth.
 
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Is the 6 months in reference to the maximum amount of time I can wait until I make a move. This probably highlights the need to approach quickly (straight away), and avoid becoming obsessed (im sure theres an acronym for this that I haven't learnt yet) or slipping into the friend zone.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yep, you guys got, wont be able to see her over the weekend, but first chance I get, i'll go for the date.

you guys are so right about evertyhing. I think my main problem is to do with confidence. Should I go read some pook, and then apply it. I seem to be able to attract women okay.
 
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