"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sam3083

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Okay so a girl (HB) that I am interested in, and haven't already advanced on, (which I will do anyway) who I am casual friends/acquatinces with. Anyway,

We kind of tease each other about other people we might like. She does this to me more then i do it to her though. Are my chances with this girl gone, becasue I have slipped slightly into the friend zone, or is this sort of teasing normal?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If she's doing this it's probably because she wants to hear you say her name.
 

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^He speaks the truth.
 

sam3083

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Is the 6 months in reference to the maximum amount of time I can wait until I make a move. This probably highlights the need to approach quickly (straight away), and avoid becoming obsessed (im sure theres an acronym for this that I haven't learnt yet) or slipping into the friend zone.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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sam3083

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Yep, you guys got, wont be able to see her over the weekend, but first chance I get, i'll go for the date.

you guys are so right about evertyhing. I think my main problem is to do with confidence. Should I go read some pook, and then apply it. I seem to be able to attract women okay.
 
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