"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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stiff neck from shrugs

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can some one plz tell me how to do shrugs the right way. becuse last night i was going shrugs in the gym and today i got a major stiff neck passed out couple of times. I really dont wana get this **** again
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well, how are you doing them in the first place?
 

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ok i am going to try to explain it. i take 2 45 pound weights on on each side and just reise them up, when i am at the top i place my chin on my cest ( read that in mans health magasizen says it lovers the presaseure)
 

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Well if you're not stretching your neck before and after the exercise, then that's a good place to start.
 

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point your chin down slightly & look forward, keep your neck still, hold the dumbells slightly in front of you, squeeze your traps, hold for a count and slowly descend. DO NOT rotate your shoulders, DO NOT jerk the weight, maintain with steady & controlled movements.

if you pinch a nerve use something with capsicum, maye "salonpas" heating pads.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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